u/TopArrival6590

I met with my ex accidentally before and after the gym I asked if she wanted to get a drink she very reasonably declined stating her bf would be upset but offered to go to the store with me we ended up talking for 4 hours I learned a lot about her current bf she is 19 and he is 21 she is in university and when I knew her she had these great dreams and aspirations to be this big shot lawyer and she always made it clear that was her priority which I loved but now she’s content on dropping out of university for this guy because he wants her to be pregnant and be a stay at home mom and she even looks slightly unconvinced of this like it’s just something she has to do. I do not wish to date my ex but I miss our friendship she even told me this guy is a alcoholic who does cocaine occasionally (she was very against heavy drinking and drugs) we both agreed we can’t have a relationship or he’ll even talk over message because her boyfriend would “kill someone” but she started following me on tiktok about an hour after I left and I told her I’ll be in the gym today at 2 if she wants to join I just feel like she is giving her life away for some dude because it’s there she even said when she wants something that he doesn’t it doesn’t happen she even told me their sex life is bad and he only prioritises himself I understands opinion is biased as I’m an ex but I still care deeply and I’m unsure if she’s convinced she has to waste her life over some guy

My friend randomly sent me this how do I proceed?

I just had closure with my ex

I met with my ex and I think she’s making a mistake with her life.