i have heard plan b doesn’t work if you’re over 160 lbs. i am over 160 lbs but im almost 6ft tall so i am not overweight by any means. does it still apply? are there any other options or are heavier girls just screwed? help meeee
Hi all, I would love a fresh outside opinion on this because my family seems to have made up their minds, but they have never liked my boyfriend. For context, we are both 20 years old and have been dating for 2 years. I recently went through and witnessed a traumatic accident and have been diagnosed with PTSD. I will not go into details but this is a time in my life where I could use all the support I can get, especially from my partner. Out of everyone in my life who have come to be with me and support me, he has been little to no support. I have repeatedly come to him in times where I have no one else to talk to and he brushes me off and tells me “I sound insane” or “I need to calm down”. Please don’t think I’ve been being overbearing because I really don’t believe I have.
Anyways, he’s been out of University for summer break for 2/3 weeks now and he promised me he’d be there for me as much as he could be. He doesn’t have a job, or any other obligations. I’ll attach some images of text messages he’s sent me recently, but he will come over always past 9:30PM. I would say on average he will come over around 10-10:30. He brings his Xbox and plays Overwatch for a few hours and then goes to sleep. We have not been having sex, I will let that be known so it’s not a sex thing. He then leaves first thing in the morning and says he has to hang kit with his sisters. His sisters are still in school, so I know he just goes home and plays video games or codes for hours and then maybe has a conversation with his sisters when they get home and then goes back to whatever he was doing and then comes back over at 10PM. Today, I asked him to drop my off at work (I no longer have a car due to the accident), which isn’t to far out of the way from his house, maybe 10 minutes away from mine and 20 away from his house. And he groaned and said “Yeah, I guess.” and then was silent the whole car ride. I’m not suspicious of cheating, but I don’t have an explanation for this and honestly it is embarrassing for my mom to watch him come over here after dark and then leave at 8:30AM and have her question me about why he’s being shady. Am I overreacting for worrying or is this not that big of a deal?
my friend told me it looked like someone else styles me and i haven’t been able to shake it. does my style suit me or is it giving imposter? lol
I’ll start by saying our relationship has been rocky. But this is really odd and I feel terrible. I have been going through one of the hardest patches of my life thus far. I was involved in a traumatic accident and have been pretty unstable, most recently i’ve been literally seeing shit when i’m alone. Truth be told, I have been absolutely mortified of being alone, which I have been since I no longer have a car and have been put on leave from work.
Anyways, my boyfriend has been a little less than supportive. He has not been over much, which he was taking his finals at uni so I understood. However he’s been out of school for 2 weeks now and It’s been weird, to say the least. Our 2 year anniversary is coming up in 2 weeks and he hasn’t made one plan, or even mentioned it. He takes me out but I pay for everything. And here’s where I’m getting hung up. For the last week, he has been coming over to my house past 10PM, playing video games until 2am and then going to bed. He wakes up and immediately leaves. This morning his excuse was that he had to “get ready” (???) to pick up his sister from school at 12:30. He set his alarm for 8:30AM and was out of the house by 8:45. I feel rejected and just off about the whole thing. I barely talk to him about my situation, or my feelings so I doubt he’s feeling the overwhelming weight of my life’s problems (lol) I just don’t get it. Am I doing something to cause this? What are your opinions?
i am going through a hard time in my life, i recently was involved in a car accident where the person who hit me passed away. it was graphic, scary, and scarring. it’s been 3 weeks and i have been able to cope relatively well. when i was young, living in the same house as i am now, i always used to see dark figures out of the corner of my eye, my mom told me it was my dad watching over me, he passed away when i was 8. i found some comfort in that and started to find them less scary.
fast forward to 2 days ago, i was sitting alone in my living room downstairs eating ice cream, i decided i was done and got up to take it back to the kitchen, as i rounded the corner from the living room to the dining room, i am faced towards the hallway, and i see a 6’-ish tall completely black shadow figure step into one of the back rooms. i don’t think anything of it because the house was pretty dark and i honestly thought it was my younger brother. i put the ice cream back in the freezer and walk back out into the dining room and my brother is coming down the stairs on the phone. i pause and start freaking out, i tell him to hang up and start telling him there’s someone in the room back there. he grabs a knife from the kitchen and i follow him back into the room and there is absolutely nothing in any of the rooms in the hallway. i am now terrified i am being haunted by this man who hit me.
what could this figure be? is it an evil presence?