My husband won’t let me have my cats.
My husband and i got married last month. i have lived with my grandma for 8 years and he has lived with his dad for 3. weeks are looking for a place to live because we are having a baby early next year. He has 4 big dogs and i am deathly allergic to dogs, so it’s been made pretty clear i can’t live with them and they will have to stay with his dad. I have two cats who are truly my only source of happiness in the world. He was never against it but we got into an argument and now he’s saying if his dogs can’t come then neither can my cats. i can’t have dogs in my home for medical reasons, he always said he loves my cats but out of spite he’s telling they have to stay. i don’t know what im supposed to do as my grandma is getting older and i don’t trust her to watch them on her own. i hate feeling like i have to choose being miserable one way or the other and it just doesn’t seem fair. what should i do ?