u/Toxic_Lord

(Third repost, sorry, pocket typed and posted without thinking)

Hi! So here's the situation, the company I work for recently went through restructuring (read: mass retrenchment) and we're moving offices from Woodmead to Germiston. I've never really used public transport in my life and I drove to work because it is a reasonable distance but Germiston is much, MUCH further from my place (I grew up privileged I know)

So I'm wondering how any public transport (be it taxis or busses) work an how i can get from Roodepoort (Little Falls/Struben's Valley/Allen's Nek area) to Germiston with public transport. Because of the massive petrol spikes i can't really afford to drive there everyday so I need to know what public transport is like what the routes are, and how to use it (as well as price there and back, that helps too), so I can weigh my options.

Its been 6 months since my (24M) first heartbreak after a year-long relationship and its been up and down. Some days i feel normal, other days i wanna hit something. I've been going to the gym consistently in that time as well and that made me better overall somewhat.

I have been avoiding talking about it... or even feeling it because I feel like that's just gonna make me feel bad. I tried to move on through OLD but... I dont really feel the motivation... nor do I feel like meeting new people. I feel like I just wanna be alone most of the time. I still have hours long Discord calls and gaming sessions with my friends. But I almost actively avoid anyone else.

It's weird apparently I'm supposed to be over it by now but.... I still feel it. The toxicity, how she used me and tossed me aside, but... I still loved her but now... I think I hate her, after consoling her through her mental health issues, after staying with her even when I felt I shouldn't, she just threw me away. After everything.

I guess... my ex just made me feel done with people... like I can't really trust anyone, like i can't be vulnerable or be close to anyone. But then again, everyone is just out to use me anyways so what's the point right?

Its been 6 months since my (24M) first heartbreak after a year-long relationship and its been up and down. Some days i feel normal, other days i wanna hit something. I've been going to the gym consistently in that time as well and that made me better overall somewhat.

I have been avoiding talking about it... or even feeling it because I feel like that's just gonna make me feel bad. I tried to move on through OLD but... I dont really feel the motivation... nor do I feel like meeting new people. I feel like I just wanna be alone most of the time. I still have hours long Discord calls and gaming sessions with my friends. But I almost actively avoid anyone else.

It's weird apparently I'm supposed to be over it by now but.... I still feel it. The toxicity, how she used me and tossed me aside, but... I still loved her but now... I think I hate her, after consoling her through her mental health issues, after staying with her even when I felt I shouldn't, she just threw me away. After everything.

I guess... my ex just made me feel done with people... like I can't really trust anyone, like i can't be vulnerable or be close to anyone. But then again, everyone is just out to use me anyways so what's the point right?

Its been 5 months since my first heartbreak after a year-long relationship and its been up and down. Some days i feel normal, other days i wanna hit something. I've been going to the gym consistently in that time as well and that made me better overall somewhat.

I have been avoiding talking about it... or even feeling it because I feel like that's just gonna make me feel bad. I tried to move on through OLD but... I dont really feel the motivation... nor do I feel like meeting new people. I feel like I just wanna be alone most of the time. I still have hours long Discord calls and gaming sessions with my friends. But I almost actively avoid anyone else.

It's weird apparently I'm supposed to be over it by now but.... I still feel it. The toxicity, how she used me and tossed me aside, but... I still loved her but now... I think I hate her, after consoling her through her mental health issues, after staying with her even when I felt I shouldn't, she just threw me away. After everything.

I guess... my ex just made me feel done with people... like I can't really trust anyone, like i can't be vulnerable or be close to anyone. But then again, everyone is just out to use me anyways so what's the point right?