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Underfunding and understaffing does not excuse individual incompetence.

A very close relative of mine has been failed by the NHS for essentially my entire life time. Being offered treatments that have only made his situation worse, and being treated by incompetent staff time and time again.

(For the record most staff are brilliant, and I love the principle of the health service. But I can't ignore the amount that just are terrible).

I'll give some past examples before getting on to what has made me write this today:

- had wounds dressed with primary dressings the wrong way around, leaving them to stick to the wounds. We had to remove these as district nurses refused to come until their allocated time days later. I have never seen him cry before this day.

- had nurses dress his wounds but not covering them all, leading to bandage to stick directly to the wound. Again unacceptable and painful

- Time and time again had wounds dressed at a DEDICATED clinic who completely ignore infection protocol, this just last year leading to sepsis.

I could go on and on....

But now on to why I am writing this.

He is currently in hospital, and has been for essentially six weeks. I say essentially, because he was wrongly discharged twice in this period before returning days later. The first discharge was admitted to be a mistake by the discharge team on the ward he was on....

Throughout this spell in hospital many things have happened that are alarming and I believe dangerous. But we will focus on the main / worse things.

1, Information not being passed on to staff during hand over. At the moment he cannot really walk. He is normally fairly mobile but because of his current illness his knees completely buckle. This information is important because he's a big guy who is not easy to get up if he falls. I should add he is extremely delirious as a result of infection so doesn't know where he is etc. despite this staff try to get him up etc, despite it apparently being in his notes to not do this. But some staff claim they were not told about this or other parts of his current condition. So which is it? Information not being passed on? Or staff not bothering to read the information? This is extremely dangerous for him and the staff.

2, Another wound dressing story! A nurse of this ward dressed his wounds so badly that almost every member of staff came over to see it the day after. The one seemingly in charge saying that 'a toddler could do a better job'. That's good and all, but it's him who has to suffer. So why is this happening?

3, perhaps the reason I'm typing this now the most, he can't swallow at the moment because he's essentially forgotten how to do it. So why is a nurse trying to force medication into him and making him choke in the process. This all happened when my mum was in the room. Not only was she pleading with this nurse to stop but the patient himself was showing visible signs of being scared despite the delirium. Yet she carried on until my mum got me to come to the hospital and stop them. This just is not safe. How can you essentially choke a patient who evidently can't swallow when their family is telling you to stop? Why are they not listening? When confronted with this they couldn't explain it. I offered two possible explanations, either the nurse is incompetent or doesn't care. I was of course called rude for this etc, but I have overheard these staff describing other staff on this ward as 'not wanting to do any work' etc, which when confronted with they didn't really have an answer.

I could go on and on. Fundamentally I am worried about him being there on his own because I just cannot trust the quality of care. My conversations with the staff were overheard by other patients on the ward who all seemed to agree with me unprompted.

I understand the health service is under pressure and the principle is great. But that isn't an excuse for individuals being negligent.

The NHS was founded upon the idea that you will not be treat according to your ability to pay. Unfortunately I don't think this is true of the NHS anymore. You indeed are treated accordingly to your ability to pay. Once we began accepting below minimum standard care with the excuse of underfunding and understaffing this principle died. If you've got money you can afford care that meets the minimums, if not you are rolling a dice on the NHS. You may have a brilliant experience with the many brilliant staff. Or you may have a terrible experience and your condition worsened by the growing number of incompetent staff the service emoloys.

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My grey has strange feet

He has three toes forward on his right foot!

Thought I would share this as it's unique / wondering if anyone else's bird is the same.

He had this when we got him, it's a result of being born with a calcium deficiency and resulted in his toes being weird but also his right leg having a sort of right angle in it.

Side note: the bad perch is being replaced soon! It's only in temporarily as we've been trying to tempt him to use more of his cage space lower down

u/Training_Republic879 — 2 days ago

Which MacBook for me?

I am sick and tired of windows laptops being shit. So here I am.

My main reason for wanting a MacBook is the fact I've found a hatred for windows, I want good battery life and I want good performance when not plugged in.

My laptop use case:

I'm a fairly mixed user. I'm a journalism student so most of my use is note taking / general student stuff. On top of that though my course, and future career, involves video editing. It's by no means the most complex stuff, it's basically editing footage together for news stories, and then maybe some light graphic design at some point.

I travel a lot which is one of my reasons for wanting a MacBook, because windows laptops can't be trusted when not plugged in.

What MacBook should I be getting? Is the Air strong enough to cover all of my use well or should I get a pro? Coming from windows I'm use to separate CPU and GPU so not sure just now strong Apples integrated stuff is.

Any advice is appreciated! I would consider refurbished stuff if it's in good condition and has a warranty!

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u/Training_Republic879 — 2 days ago

If you could only know one sleight, what would it be?

Perhaps ignoring controls since most things involve controlling a card to somewhere. If you could only know and perform one sleight for the rest of your days, what is it?

I think the double lift might be an efficient if 'boring' one

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u/Training_Republic879 — 4 days ago

Card control with the fingertip peek

What is the best control here? Since you hold the break below the shown card, (meaning the card sits above your pinky in the break as opposed to below when a normal selection is returned to the deck) what is the best control to get this card to the top / bottom?

Best shuffles / cuts that are deceptive whilst allowing control over the card/cards?

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u/Training_Republic879 — 6 days ago

Uk heatwave overnight advice

My African grey has been sat in front of a fan most of the day. My house gets ridiculously hot in the summer, especially the room he spends most of his time in and the UK is especially hot right now.

The room he normally sleeps in is 32 degrees Celsius right now.

He normally sleeps under a cover, in a closed room.

Should I leave him without a cover and leave the fan on him all night?

I feel kinda bad making him sleep in a boiling room

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u/Training_Republic879 — 13 days ago

I really love performing, but have one particular weakness..

I mostly perform to strangers on the street. Usually at night on say a Saturday, I live in a city centre so it's busy and people here are generally social and friendly so don't encounter any problems. (Although I always have a friend with me 😅)

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Basically, I always open with a simple change card in hand effect. It's quick and powerful, meaning I can get a reaction and move on quickly so everyone is happy. Or, if they seem particularly interested, then perform some other stuff.

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For some reason, when I've been performing for a few hours and have done this trick loads of times that's when my chance of messing up is highest. And I don't really know what to do when I mess up 😂

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Any advice on how to get out of trouble here? Usually it's just a moment of awkwardness and then I redeem myself by getting another trick right.

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But yeah any advice / can anyone else relate?

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u/Training_Republic879 — 14 days ago

Putting magic on social media?

I've posted on here quite a lot, and am very new to magic. Only been doing it 'properly' for probably 6 months max.

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Obviously you can't be 'good' in six months but I consider myself relatively good for being new.

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I've been performing on the street a fair bit recently, as well as for friends etc and have been asked repeatedly, 'what's your TikTok' etc etc.

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My friends have said that i should post some performances but I'm not sure if it's a good idea or not 🤷🏽‍♂️

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Does anyone here post stuff / have any opinions on posting stuff?

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u/Training_Republic879 — 18 days ago

Question about 'below' the magic app

The effect looks really cool.....but it's expensive.

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I was wondering if anybody on here has it/uses it could help me out here with exactly how it works.

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Do you have to pre record a video before the routine? If so does that not make it very location specific?

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Is it something that you've used regularly and got good reactions?

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On a side note, anybody know of a notes app that can help with effects? For example they can name a number and a card I have 'predicted' will be that number in a list ?

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u/Training_Republic879 — 20 days ago

Mem decks?

I'm fairly new to this magic thing.

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What is a mem deck? Just a deck where the order is memorized or easy to figure out?

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Is this worth putting time into? Are there cool effects worth the time and effort?

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u/Training_Republic879 — 25 days ago

Performing to people sitting down when your standing

Sometimes when me and a friend walk around the city showing people magic, the spectators are seated when we are stood.

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It seems I'm more likely to get caught with sleight of hand like a top palm for example when this is the case.

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Is this a skill issue or just something that comes with the cards basically being at the spectators eye level?

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u/Training_Republic879 — 26 days ago

Might have my first gig idk?

I've been doing magic for like 4 months so I consider myself very new.

Although, I also consider myself, 'good for how new I am'. Although of course after 4 months I'm not going to be great!

Today I visited my dad in hospital and he had told the staff I do magic, and that I would show them some. I didn't expect this but I take a deck when I visit him because he likes it and sometimes other patients do.

Long story short, I basically performed for all the staff on the ward. One of them works at a school in my area as well and said that i should come and do some stuff at their summer fair.

Basically, I don't know if I should do it or not. (To be fair I'm probably getting ahead of myself because it's not an official offer or anything)

But yeah, I don't really know if I'm good enough and whether it's something I necessarily want to do. I really enjoy approaching people in public and showing them a quick trick, but this might be different to that?

Any advice ? 😅

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u/Training_Republic879 — 29 days ago

Ben earl - The Family

I've only been doing magic for a few months, despite it feeling a fair bit longer.

I learnt a lot openly from the Internet, and consider myself "decent" at magic considering I'm still new to it.

However, I found that if you're putting serious hours in you quickly hit a bit of a block in terms of what you can learn openly from the Internet. Unless of course you turn to books, but my lord I hate books. So that wasn't an option for me.

I've been subscribed to Ben Earls subscription 'The Family' for a couple weeks now and so far I love it. It genuinely feels like your learning from one of the best in a very detailed and understandable way.

Not in the, 'everybody sells a course these days' way.

Yeah I just wanted to say I'm a big fan of the subscription and would absolutely recommend it!

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u/Training_Republic879 — 1 month ago
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Room full of flies

I left my window open and, like an idiot, my light on. I've been away for two days. I've come back to LOADS of flies in my room. How do I get rid of them?

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u/Training_Republic879 — 2 months ago

Ben earl - unreal card magic. Is it worth it?

I'm a very visual learner, really not good at learning from books. I'm not sure why either, but I've always been like it 🤷🏽‍♂️

Wondering if anybody knows if this course would be worth it. My position is that i consider myself 'alright' at magic. My technique and sleights are good enough to fool people, and I'm working on confidence in performing.

Has anyone bought this course? Or knows anything about it?

Would you recommend it? I'm skeptical of courses in the big 2026 because, well, everybody seems to be selling a course or some sort

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u/Training_Republic879 — 2 months ago

Public transport is great for magic

I wrote something similar here a while ago. But on public transit I practice my double lift over and over. For example a three hour train is three hours of working on it (alongside other stuff too).

What I've found is on almost every train I get someone notices and asks to see a trick. From there I end up performing to groups etc.

Maybe this is just a UK thing because people generally can be social on trains here. But yeah, I love train magic!

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u/Training_Republic879 — 2 months ago

Best place to learn new tricks ?

I've got that itch to add some new tricks to my repertoire, where is the best place to learn them / be taught them? I've always been big into learning from YouTube but I'm struggling to find stuff on there now (but maybe you have some specific channel recommendations?) and I'm not the best at learning from books although I might have to bite the bullet.

Any specific recommendations would be great! I'm also trying to branch out from just the quick street magic style tricks I do at the moment and add some variety

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u/Training_Republic879 — 2 months ago