u/Tulipblooming4

I have a narcissistic mother, and after a long search, the only solution seemed to be leaving home. However, I live in a conservative society and cannot live alone without being married — and I don't want to get married right now, so I am forced to stay at home.

How can I have a healthy relationship with her? I mean, I try to avoid everything that triggers her narcissism, but I don't succeed. When she gets angry, she says harsh things without considering others' feelings, and when she's in a good mood, she can be wonderful.

I'm exhausted from all this oscillation in the relationship, and I can't be the obedient girl she dreams of having.

Any words from you would be very helpful to me — I really need that. Thank you in advance.

Hello, I would like to know if any of you have already joined the Seven Cups app and what the results of your experience were. Was the app suitable for talking and connecting with those who have been through experiences similar to ours? And if you have had other useful experiences with other apps, I would be happy if you shared them with me.

I don't know how to start explaining or from where I should start telling my story. I think I have an Nmom, but I am really not sure about it and so confused. I did a lot of research to understand the situation and decide if my mom is or is not a narcissist, and with every new clue that I realize, I say, "No, maybe it was really my fault, not hers."

I knew about Nmom suddenly, out of nowhere, about two months ago, and tried to understand it and compare it to my case, but until now I can't see it clearly. So please, can you give me some advice based on your experience?

Note: English is not my first language, so please excuse me if there are any mistakes.