How are we handling coaches that only seem to coach based on the squeaky wheel getting the grease?
So I’m talking 9u and the coach seems to just be pumping up kids whose parents (single moms to be real) keep complaining to him about their kid not getting the position they want or not getting the ball. Some of these kids shouldn’t even be out there. They constantly disrupt practice. Insult the coach, swearing, throwing their equipment around the field. all that negative stuff. They even had to stop practice because one of the moms was yelling and screaming and insulting the coach from the sidelines because she thinks the coach is too much of a softie to discipline her kid when he disrupts everyone else. But sure enough, by the next game, the coach is propping her kid up and giving him opportunity’s and denying opportunity’s to the kids that show up and put effort in and compete and prioritize being a good teammate while being 100x more talented than these problem kids.
We try and teach our children the benefits of a solid team mentality but here we have a guy that just operates under the control of those who complain the most get the rewards.
frustrating as hell but looking to see what others would do in this situation.