u/Typical_Brief_8956

There’s this girl I work with and when she says hi to me she says it in a soft really soft voice.

But when she says hi to everyone else she uses her normal voice.

We are the same level of employee at the work place.

Also just fyi she has a boyfriend so I don’t think she likes me or anything.

But I come in and she says hi to me in this really soft voice with a somewhat excited inflection and then everyone else she just says hello to them in a non soft normal voice.

Does any one know maybe why she does this?

A year ago I had cox coming out to give me a router so I could connect at my apartment.

The person never showed up on time and I had to leave.

I just decided not to reschedule but next thing I know I get a $200 bill from them.

I tell them I never got the router or got set up but they still had enough of my info to charge a bill to my name.

I let the $200 charge off.

Now I want to get set up a year later and they want the $200.

I think $100 of it is a setup fee

Is there anyway I can get some of those services rendered so I don’t pay twice when I set up this time?

Anyone been through this?

Any suggestions or what you would do in this situation?

I 25(M) and friend 25(M) have been friends for about a year.

Do you think this person is being manipulative towards me in this situation??

They insulted me in a conversation shown below:

They are - A
I am - B

A- why do you think you could date her? you aren’t good enough not even close

B- why would you say that to me that was so rude??

A - okay my bad sorry about that

B- please don’t speak to me like that again, that was so disrespectful I don’t want to be friends with you if you speak to me like that

A- okay well what if I do it by accident??

B- I don’t see how you could be that rude by accident???

A- well I might that doesn’t make sense to you?

B- I mean sometimes slip ups happen but that rude no I don’t see that

A- why wouldn’t that be possible??

Etc.

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Do you think them saying “well what if I do it by accident” is being manipulative and moving the goal post on asking them to respect me??

In my opinion it is, but I’m curious how others would feel about that.

Tl;Dr friend said something rude then I felt he moved the goal post on me asking for respect