u/Unable_Impress_5608

I just walked by the new playground equipment at Green Hope Elementary School. If I had a handicapped child, I'd be so angry. There's no normal way to climb onto the play structure, only a 3 foot high step or climbing pole. On one of the two play structures, you have to climb over thick bars attached horizontally by ropes to get to a couple of the slides. The other slide ends two feet above the ground so it would be a falling hazard. Even many able bodied children are going to struggle with this playground. Who chose this equipment Town of Cary? Sean Stegall?

I just walked by the new playground equipment at Green Hope Elementary School. If I had a handicapped child, I'd be so angry. There's no normal way to climb onto the play structure, only a 3 foot high step or climbing pole. On one of the two play structures, you have to climb over thick bars attached horizontally by ropes to get to a couple of the slides. The other slide ends two feet above the ground so it would be a falling hazard. Even many able bodied children are going to struggle with this playground. Who chose this equipment Town of Cary? Sean Stegall?

Serious question. Is there a TikTok challenge or something like that where younger guys are trying to hook up with older women? For the second time in a couple of weeks I've had guys who are probably 30 try to ask me out. I'm closer to 60 and, trust me, I look my age. They both asked me questions including asking if I'm married. One was at Whole Foods and the other was a Lyft driver. I'm not even divorced yet. And I don't currently have much trust in men. (Sorry to any guys who are here). Leave me alone!

Discovered by mistake that he was having 2 concurrent affairs, one in each of the cities we had a house. He finally moved his stuff out of the house I'm going to be keeping but we've been here for 30 years and he left all sorts of sh** behind for me to have to deal with. I asked him to help me get rid of some of it and he replied:

"I look forward to the day when we can move forward with a friendly, civil relationship and offer my help whenever you need me.  You're the mother of my children and I want to always be there for you, but we need to first get the separation agreement behind us and stop with the insults and threats. I know that you're angry and I'm very sorry that I hurt you."

He's a total BS artist. He's not sorry he hurt me, he's sorry he got caught. Anyway, advice needed. Do I send the reply below or say nothing? I think I know the best answer but I'm looking for input.

"I don't actually need your help.  I just want crap that you purchased over the years and left behind out of my house.  As far as a "friendly, civil relationship", I have no desire whatsoever for that.  Ever.  As far as our adult kids, other than being a sperm donor, you can barely call them your children because you did little to raise them.  I guess that's a good thing because it would be a tragedy if any of them had ended up with your morals and values."