u/UnderstandingLow4768

I feel stuck and I don’t know how to get out

I am in an abusive relationship and I feel dependent on him emotionally and financially. He got arrested for domestic violence and got out and I am scared of him but I’m also too scared to leave because my mental health is really bad and I don’t think I could do it on my own without ending up homeless for a while. I feel really unhappy with or without him. I feel very helpless because of my depression and other illnesses that affect my functioning. I don’t want to be here anymore

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u/UnderstandingLow4768 — 15 hours ago

My husband got arrested but I don’t want it to end

I feel horrible and in shock. My husband got arrested a few hours ago. He pulled out a sledge hammer to break open the door when I wouldn’t answer the phone or the door. He was threatening to hit me with it and then he started pushing me, grabbing me, and putting his hands around my neck. I grabbed my stuff to leave and then he told me he wanted me to stay. He said that I was, “going to pay,” for not opening the door. And he said he was gonna send someone to kidnap me. I am not ready to leave the relationship. He is probably going to get deported and he can’t get bailed out. I miss him as fucked up as it sounds. I don’t want him to leave. I regret calling the police but I don’t know what would’ve happened if I didn’t. I told them I didnt want to press charges but they arrested him anyway.

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