u/UnderstandingMain979

what a show. my only complaint was he didn’t play rat in bin more

Is anyone selling a ticket to the Sydney show tonight I am desperateeee

I have posted before but I need to get an abortion. I am 20 weeks 4 days and in Australia the cut off for private clinics is 20 weeks latest none will accept me so the only option is going through the public system which they make very very difficult. I’m in NSW so im gonna beg em at the hospital today but im really upset as the only option offered is a labour induction they do it do D & Es. I have tried to get seen interstate but no one will take anyone out of state. I have just psyched myself for a D & E. I think only option is to get a 20+ hour flight to the UK or even the states but that would cost so much money I cannot even fathom how I would do it. I can’t have this baby. Is a labour induction more traumatic? I have grown attached to the baby so I want to be knocked out

Hi all I am currently 20 weeks pregnant, single with no support (24f) and it’s been a real shit show. After a massive n tumultuous time booking and backing out of abortion I have reached the cut off where it is almost impossible. I live in Sydney currently in a 6 person sharehouse so that is not going to be sustainable with a baby and was wondering if there were any resources anyone knows of? I have been dissociated for a while now and it’s getting real. Also if there is any young mums or single mums in Sydney that wanted to be friends etc etc bc your girl is alone as hell

I’m almost at the cut off for my country (20 weeks) to get an abortion and have previously backed out like 6 times I found out at around 6 weeks. It is in a few days or never and I am increasingly distressed. I had a termination a year ago at a way less gestation and was extremely traumatised it was so painful and I felt so empty afterwards. I am assuming it would be much worse this late and yeah now I have psyched myself that I have to do this but the problem is now it just feels horrible being so late and I’m terrified of a 2 day procedure and the pain and knowing the gender and seeing her makes it all the more real. I thought I could do it alone but I really can’t. If anyone has had an elective 2nd tri abortion (esp like 17+ weeks) did you feel like physically empty afterwards and how was the emotions?

Just need some advice. I am 15 weeks pregnant currently after rescheduling and scheduling an abortion many times in the lead up. I kept putting it off but now I can’t and I am extremely distressed. I had a traumatic abortion over a year ago, overseas with the same man (I’ve been pregnant 3 times on the pill, I am shit at taking it and knew I should’ve got an implant- I am also hyper fertile) and this abortion left me with PTSD, a year later and I was still having nightmares every night and regular breakdowns. So doing it again feels impossible, I’m way further along and know the gender and have seen her so I don’t think I would be okay. Adoption is an option although it just seems super traumatic. Keeping it is not really an option as I don’t have support, money and have so much I need to do in life. I thought if the dad and I pooled together we could make it work- but he does not want to be a dad and is so panicked. I told him I could do it alone and relinquish his rights but he said he wouldn’t let me do that. He has been so supportive and lovely this whole process, calling up the clinic to ask questions for me, taking time off work, cooking, cleaning for me and I would feel like I’m letting him (and probably myself down) for not getting rid of it and also don’t want to lose him bc he would resent me. I love him so much and that makes it feel unbearable. Any advice etc would be appreciated. Do I just force myself to get the procedure?