Hello! I'm a 28F Indonesian living in Germany, and I'm planning to visit the Dachau Concentration Camp tomorrow. I'll be coming from Villingen-Schwenningen and arriving in Munich at 10:10 by ICE.
I'll be going alone, but I thought I'd try my luck here and ask if anyone would like to accompany me. Is there anyone who lives nearby and would be interested in joining me?
Guess I want to rant a little bit. So yeah few days ago I made a post looking for friends in the thread MakeFriendsInGermany, and now my inbox is full of messages...
The funny thing is....... I barely have the energy to reply........
It's not that I don't appreciate people reaching out. I genuinely do. It's just that interacting with complete strangers online feels so exhausting sometimes...
When there's no chemistry yet, every conversation feels like you're trying to force something to happen.....
You ask the same questions over and over again, where are you from, what do you do, what are your hobbies, and after the tenth conversation it all starts blending together.
I think what I've realized is that I'm actually much better at making friends in person. When I meet someone face-to-face, conversations just... happen.
We bounce off each other's energy, joke around naturally, and if we click, we click. There's no pressure.
But online? Building chemistry from absolute zero through text feels like work 😭
Maybe I'm just not built for online friendships anymore. Or maybe I just miss the days when friendships happened naturally instead of feeling like I'm interviewing ten different people at once...
Don't get me wrong, I do want more friends... Doch. I just forgot that the process of making them is the hardest part 😭😭😭
I'm looking for friends in Germany! I've been living in Germany for 11 months and I originally come from Indonesia.
I'm looking for people with preferences below:
✨ Live alone
✨ Are also struggling with the language and cultural differences
✨ Can speak both German and English
Male or female is fine, though I'd love to meet more girls around here 💕
I'm based in Villingen-Schwenningen, Baden-Württemberg, South Germany.
It would be nice to have people to talk to about life in Germany, share experiences, support each other through the ups and downs, grab a coffee, hang out, meet up, or even travel together someday if we click 😊
A little bit about me: I love anime, manga, and gaming! 🎮📚
My all-time favorite anime is One Piece, but I also enjoy anime like Naruto, Attack on Titan, Demon Slayer, My Hero Academia, Jujutsu Kaisen, etc. I play games whenever I have free time (mainly mobile games like Genshin Impact, Mobile Legends, Pokemon Unite) so if you're into anime or gaming too, we'll probably have a lot to talk about 😊
I've also become really interested in history, especially learning about different countries and historical events. I'm a bit of a geek, so once I get interested in a topic, I can spend hours reading and talking about it. 😄
Sometimes being an immigrant can feel a little lonely, so I'd love to connect with people who understand the struggle ❤️
Some new friend I made deleted me on discord just because I didn't text them back for like 8 hours??? Smh