u/Unhappy-Maybe-5204

Is this a red flag or is it just me overthinking?

A coworker and I have become a lot closer over the past few months, talking/sharing more with each other than I am normally comfortable with

It’s no secret we both find each other attracted, coworkers have told me they’ve noticed us becoming closer

The problem is that said coworker is already in a relationship, and engaged. So after becoming closer and texting about more personal issues (which has nothing about her relationship) I was asked to switch from normal texts to whatsapp

I asked why they want to move to the app and never got an answer

There’s been times where flirting has pushed the boundary of what I’m comfortable with and have shut that down, I really just want connection/deeper conversations that I have craved for a long time

I don’t like the feeling of moving in the direction of being a homewrecker or something, as I’ve been on the negative/opposite end of that situation, and know how much it can hurt