are AEC students friendly? can I make friends there easily? or is there a severe ragging culture which can make me demotivated or depressed?

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i think I'll be getting a seat here in AEC. as a to-be-1st year student, I am a person who feels very inferior at all times. can I expect myself to make friends there easily? or am I gonna be made fun of there.

also, are the seniors friendly with their juniors? what is the ragging culture there? like, can I hope to make good bonding with them or like, I have to call them formally, as sir, or ma'am or smth like that. like they do in some IITs.

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u/Unique-Ad5128 — 18 hours ago
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are AEC students friendly? can I make friends there easily? or is there a severe ragging culture which can make me demotivated or depressed

i think I'll be getting a seat here in AEC. as a to-be-1st year student, I am a person who feels very inferior at all times. can I expect myself to make friends there easily? or am I gonna be made fun of there.

also, are the seniors friendly with their juniors? what is the ragging culture there? like, can I hope to make good bonding with them or like, I have to call them formally, as sir, or ma'am or smth like that. like they do in some IITs.

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u/Unique-Ad5128 — 18 hours ago

my father hugged me for the first time

Pata hai aaj kya hua, me (18M) and my father, actually got into a huge heated argument. I would not like to disclose the reason behind this, but we fight and quarrel quite often on petty things. he also often loses his cool and starts saying things he isn't supposed to. no. not gaalis. but something which could emotionally break you down.

but my father is a very caring person by nature and I do not realise often that everything he does is just his concern for me. he does not put restrictions in me buying clothes, items, etc. he provided me with everything to sustain a happy family. but at times when he loses his cool as says really disheartening things, I often find myself arguing with him, even though he doesn't want to. but he stops at last.

you might think that all these actions by me are actually petulant and I am just a child who gets irritated by everything. but lately, I'm finding myself in a mentally disturbed state, cause school's over and now I am moving to college, uncertain of everything, whether I'd be able to make new friends, get ragged heavily etc. and things like that, as a person who lives in a constant state of inferiority, lately these thoughts have been eating up my mind and I am in a frightened state for some days.

also because, I am pretty disturbed because of me leaving my beautiful friend circle which was my constant source of happiness. also, I lost a best-friend of mine recently (she didn't die, we broke our friendship). in short - I am pretty disturbed lately. and he provoked me this afternoon over yet another petty topic and one issue drifted into another and now I had completely lost it.

he doesn't hit me though he used to hit me in childhood like every father does. but he ceases to do such things in such a big age. while we were quarrelling, I spoke in a high tone a lot, but was not able to control my tears at last cause it was way too heated today and I really lost control and cried after 6 years. though he stopped quarrelling at that time.

i was very very impulsive and criticised him my heart out. later regretted it. unko bhi bura laga hoga ki unke baare mai maine jee phaad ke jo bura bol saka bola. and at last, concluded with, everything I've said today, all these words came from my heart, this is a result of suppressing my thoughts for all these years. all these years of grudge, angst and hatred led me to what I've done today. and went to sleep.

later in the evening, I was doing some C++ when he came and asked me if this particular perfume worked or not (the cap was broken), I said, it did. he applied the perfume and suddenly hugged me, and said, "amake niye kharap bhabish na baba, ami tor kharap chai na" (translation:- please don't think ill of me, I don't wish you any harm). later I got to know that in the afternoon while he slept, my mother saw him wiping his tears. perhaps I'm regretting doing it now. he didn't deserve it.

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u/Unique-Ad5128 — 2 days ago

are there standalone Btech programmes in CSE in GUIST? cause I only see integrated MTech programmes there in the GU samarth portal

and will the registration start soon? or it has already ended?

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u/Unique-Ad5128 — 10 days ago
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Any recommendations for movies which make you feel good at the end of the day, like Piku, English Vinglish, Queen, which are based on a foreign setup

I have always liked movies like Piku, English Vinglish, Queen, Dear Zindagi which are sorta feel good movies. Though not all of them are based on foreign countries, I love this genre of self discovery, acceptance and movies which make you feel good at the end of a tiring day.

I need some movie recommendations like these. I am bored of watching shit movies lately.

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u/Unique-Ad5128 — 12 days ago
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Recommend me some anthology movies/series, like Modern Love: Mumbai, Feels Like Ishq, Ajeeb Daastaans, and Little Things

i am a guy who has watched a lot of genres when it comes to movies, and the ones I love the most are of melancholic or rom-com or feel good themes. i have watched movies like what's eating Gilbert grape, Good Will Hunting, Margarita with a straw, and Call me by your name, God's Own Country etc.

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though lately, I have felt like I have watched many movies from this particular genre, where there are various subparts in a movie directed by different directors, or there are different episodes covering different lifestyles and explores diversity of love! this concept has always amazed me, but I feel like I've run out of similar movies.

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i also am a huge sucker for movies which feel cozy, comforting, relatable and makes you relax after a hectic day at work, and make you feel good, and makes you introspect yourself.

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also, I love movies and series which contain good Background scores and great cinematography. particularly recent ones from 2010-2026 which cover a better cinematic landscape in movies.

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i know, that I'm asking for a lot, but I would really love if someone has recommendations for the exact type of movies I'm talking about! doesn't matter if it's bollywood or non- bollywood.

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u/Unique-Ad5128 — 13 days ago

help me find some good movies/series, similar to Ajeeb Daastaans, Lust Stories, Modern Love: Mumbai

i don't know what is this genre called but I seem to love this genre so much!! So basically, I love anthology movies which have multiple sub-parts directed by different directors, for example - Lust Stories, Ajeeb Daastaans. I've loved these type of movies so much!

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This series is not on Netflix, it's rather on Amazon Prime, it's called Modern Love: Mumbai, I've also watched the Chennai one. I seemed to love this Modern Love series. and I love watching movies and series covering similar genres or stories.

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Basically I love those movies and series which cover a new story with every episode. Showing the diversities of love in a unique way.

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But I've been feeling so sad lately as I do not seem to find such movies and series anymore. I really need help from you people!

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Though I love watching series like the Game of Thrones, and other supernatural thingy typa movies. But I have always had a soft spot for such movies and series.

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HELP ME!!

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u/Unique-Ad5128 — 14 days ago

a completely clueless person who wants to start his reading journey. help me out with some books to start.

I am an 18 year old guy from India who is fascinated by books. But i dont have any clue regarding where to start, I've seen many people online telling me to find my genre of books first. So here are my favorite genres - Storytelling, Love, Romance, Mystery, Heartwarming, Heartbreaking, Makes you look at life differently, Melancholy.

Also, i am a person who speaks, knows, and understands english very well. But i still need some starter books to develop my vocabulary better. what i mean to say is that i don't need books which constantly require me to keep a grammar book beside me to interpret things better. It kinda makes me lose interest in reading consistently. I am saying this from a personal experience cause I have read "White Nights" by Fyodor Dostoevsky, now, please don't judge or criticise me, but I have loved the story and the writing style but he used certain words which made me constantly open up google or ChatGPT to find out the meaning of those words. and that made me distract a bit.

Concludingly, all i would like to say is that i need some books which keep you hooked and keep you glued to your seat so much that you lose track of time. Also, If the books are a bit cheap then its better but that is something secondary and requires no obligation!

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u/Unique-Ad5128 — 14 days ago

a completely clueless person who wants to start his reading journey. help me out with some books to start.

I am an 18 year old guy from India who is fascinated by books. But i dont have any clue regarding where to start, I've seen many people online telling me to find my genre of books first. So here are my favorite genres - Storytelling, Love, Romance, Mystery, Heartwarming, Heartbreaking, Makes you look at life differently, Melancholy.

Also, i am a person who speaks, knows, and understands english very well. But i still need some starter books to develop my vocabulary better. what i mean to say is that i don't need books which constantly require me to keep a grammar book beside me to interpret things better. It kinda makes me lose interest in reading consistently. I am saying this from a personal experience cause I have read "White Nights" by Fyodor Dostoevsky, now, please don't judge or criticise me, but I have loved the story and the writing style but he used certain words which made me constantly open up google or ChatGPT to find out the meaning of those words. and that made me distract a bit.

Concludingly, all i would like to say is that i need some books which keep you hooked and keep you glued to your seat so much that you lose track of time. Also, If the books are a bit cheap then its better but that is something secondary and requires no obligation!

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u/Unique-Ad5128 — 14 days ago
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Am I not cinephile enough?

The flair might not be accurate enough but that is the closest it can get to my issue. I am a person who has watched a lot of movies from different genres. Like "The Perks of being a wallflower", "What's eating gilbert grape" and a lot of other movies in Hindi and Bengali.

So, Whenever i come across some movie which I really like or admire, something which made me genuinely happy, or made me flood with tears. I came across some critical cinephiles on LetterBoxd or Google Reviews or even Reddit, finding out flaws about the movie, and saying how they did not like certain parts of the movie.

Like yesterday, I watched Call me by your name for the first time and i cried badly. However i found certain reviews on Reddit of people finding out certain flaws about the movie but for me the movie contained exceptional cinematography and background scores. It all made me realise if i am even watching a movie properly? am i too immature to actually enjoy the movie while there are intellectuals who do not like the movie because of their highly mature perception and knowledge of history and the practical world?

Similarly, there are some movies which are highly praised by core cinephiles and when i go to watch the movie/series, i get bored easily? Do i really need to forcefully watch the movie to fit into the high society? and pretend to like it?

As a person who has a huge FOMO personality, it makes me feel as if i am not looking at the movie properly. and perhaps enjoying it was not the point of it at all.

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u/Unique-Ad5128 — 16 days ago

Covering an English song for the first time! Please don't judge

Song - Beauty and a Beat by Justin Bieber.

Even though I've sung many english songs before, it's my first time posting something! Though I have a childish voice, hope you people won't mind me shouting for some seconds 😭

u/Unique-Ad5128 — 24 days ago

Do I look good or do I look chopped

Lens - lenskart

Upper - Highlander

Trousers - Roadster

Socks bhi pehne hai niche😅 from Jockey

This is my first time posting myself on reddit. I don't know how to pose. So sorry😭😭😭

u/Unique-Ad5128 — 27 days ago

Tried a Lata Mangeshkar song! Please don't judge me

The song is pretty tough in itself. And i have felt real chills even trying this out! Also, I am not a classical singer, so sorry for any mistakes I've done😭

u/Unique-Ad5128 — 29 days ago

Can anyone help me with something I need to change in my vocals to make it sound better?

This is me singing Aa Raat Bhar. Sorry for me exaggerating too much in the end. It happens when I try to improvise and I fear that I would fuck it up!

u/Unique-Ad5128 — 30 days ago
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Got to know that our region had the toughest set in the country, but my exam was decent, and I feel like I'll score more than 90 in it. By any chance, do you think CBSE will award me moderation marks?

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u/Unique-Ad5128 — 2 months ago
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I see everyone talking about region 1,2,3,4 etc. I tried googling about it but the results are not satisfactory. I don't understand which region constitutes what portion. Can someone help me with it?

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u/Unique-Ad5128 — 2 months ago
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I am a serious student, I practiced and studied a lot during my boards. But after I am not taking my entrances seriously yaar, it's not hitting me hard the fact that how hard entrances are and what will happen to me if I do not crack it. Thoda padhne baithu toh bore ho jata hu 2 min baad reddit khol leta hu. What are some tips that you people can provide, so that I can atleast study seriously

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u/Unique-Ad5128 — 2 months ago
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Saw many people just stressing out with result dates. Thought I'd divert some of you up. Result ko filhaal chor do, tumlog batao kitna expect kar rahe ho?

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u/Unique-Ad5128 — 2 months ago

Before trolling me, please understand that these marks matter to me a lot. I am getting around 91-92 in Physics. Is there anyway my marks could get reduced below 90? When I initially gave the exam, I was not at all sceptical of me scoring below 90 in Physics. But I am really scared after seeing all those posts mentioning like the teachers have checked around a thousand copies yet no student could score above 80. Please help.

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u/Unique-Ad5128 — 2 months ago