u/Unique-Ad9592

To those what were in long term unhappy relationships or marriages- what made you finally leave / the relationship end?

My partner and I have been tg 10 years. I found out about his addiction a few years ago. His content somehow progressed to watching my younger sisters and their friends (underage at the time I first saw it- I didn’t believe that was why he was watching or that he was turned on,although I had the gut feeling deep down because of his history). Anyway I recently saw he was watching their TikTok’s, (non explicit so if someone could explain??) allegedly “20 minutes” before we had sex. I have stood by him (now I see was somewhat foolish and naive because it only feels like I enabled him) for years. We have very little sex life maybe once every two weeks, if I lightly mention the time that has passed since we last did. Just feel devastated because we hav two kids now and I’m embarrassed. I feel like I failed. I feel like I have to walk away he took it too far.

My partner and I have been tg 10 years. I found out about his addiction a few years ago. His content somehow progressed to watching my younger sisters and their friends (underage at the time I first saw it- I didn’t believe that was why he was watching or that he was turned on,although I had the gut feeling deep down because of his history). Anyway I recently saw he was watching their TikTok’s, (non explicit so if someone could explain??) allegedly “20 minutes” before we had sex. I have stood by him (now I see was somewhat foolish and naive because it only feels like I enabled him) for years. We have very little sex life maybe once every two weeks, if I lightly mention the time that has passed since we last did. Just feel devastated because we hav two kids now and I’m embarrassed. I feel like I failed. I feel like I have to walk away he took it too far.