It’s been ~3 years, and I have thought about my ex every single day.

I broke up with my ex some time around September 2023, and not a day goes by that I don’t think about him.

This was my first relationship ever. Being naive at the time, I allowed myself to be manipulated and degraded by him. I still loved him, despite knowing how toxic our relationship was. He would:

  1. Not allow me to wear “immodest clothes“ (aka, crop tops, shorts, tank tops)
  2. Not allow me to hang out with friends
  3. Not allow me on social media
  4. Not allow me to talk to other guys as friends
  5. Cut off ties with childhood friends that were males
  6. Not allows to join clubs or sports since I would be speaking with people he didn’t know
  7. Not even allowed to go to parties with my family
  8. He would cheat on me

Yes, I know it is all bad, but a part of me misses him so much. I can’t stop myself from checking his socials (now that he has them), look him up online, and ask my friends how he’s doing.

I entered another relationship (April 2024) without really grieving my past relationship, and we are still together. I love my now partner, but I genuinely feel guilty thinking about my ex everyday. My partner has every quality my ex lacked in, and he treats me so well.

I dont know why I always think of my ex though. I am no longer in love with him; I don’t even know where he is anymore—how do I make this stop?

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u/United-Reindeer6020 — 5 days ago
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Fontana Church on Tamarind and Arrow

I used to take the kiddos to the elementary school in front of the church located on Arrow and Tamarind. I recall seeing children at the playground behind it, and it was suddenly closed down.

I asked another parent why it had closed down and word of mouth was there was a trafficking ring associated with it. Another parent said it closed due to funds.

I never saw anything on the news about it. It’s been years since I moved out of Fontana, but I was always curious what happened there.

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u/United-Reindeer6020 — 5 days ago
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Is this Coach bag fake?

First depop purchase :)

Unsure of how to tell if authentic or fake. I googled up a bit of signs, but I genuinely find it so complicated

u/United-Reindeer6020 — 11 days ago

Do you think Pomona is IE or LA?

I know it’s in LA county, but Pomona be acting like IE nowadays.

My Pomona friends and I were having this discussion yesterday. What do you all think?

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u/United-Reindeer6020 — 13 days ago

Package given to wrong person

I recently ordered a package online had to be set to be delivered to my address. I received a notification that it was picked up by an individual at the post office. I tried calling and setting up a missing package request, but no response after a week. Does anyone know how I could start retrieving my package because it seems like contacting any USPS store in Madison is literally Mission impossible

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u/United-Reindeer6020 — 15 days ago

UW-Madison Summer Dorms

For anyone staying in the dorms this summer, how cold are the ACs for you all? I have a frigidair AC, and it barely does anything. I wake up at night sweating my ass off.

Should I call maintenance to get a replacement, or are they all collectively bad?

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u/United-Reindeer6020 — 26 days ago

FINAL FOLLOW UP

Thank you for all the recs! Looks like it’s definitive negative.

Yes, I panicked. Yes, I took ts asap!!😩😩🙏

This is the final follow up two prior posts.

u/United-Reindeer6020 — 1 month ago

FOLLOW UP (RETEST): From previous post on same subreddit

second test as previous commenters recommended.

faintish horizontal line. should i just wait until morning when i wake up

will do with pink dye tmr

u/United-Reindeer6020 — 1 month ago

What’s this second horizontal blue line?

Took a test today and saw another horizontal blue line. Can someone help please, i’m getting very worried…

u/United-Reindeer6020 — 1 month ago