u/United-University-78

Hi all,

I have just gotten through a 3rd round interview with Medline. I have always worked with Medline for distribution. They say it’s a $75k base and $110k guaranteed minimum first year. I know bonus can be big if you hit your number from the reps I know. I know they have changed some comp plans recently but wanted to see what people have to say realistically money wise. I have seen the range on other sites be $100-$500k.

So my girlfriend recently went to the gyno after not going for a few years. She calls me today and said she was positive for HPV. She was in a 4 year relationship and was seeing two other guys after they broke up and before us. We met in October and became official on NYE, I knew she was still seeing the one guy after we met and she claims she hasnt slept with anyone else other than me since becoming exclusive. She has had a significant number of bodies 35-40 compared to my 7. She claims she didn’t cheat but I don’t know. Did she cheat? What should I do?

I’ve never had any STD in my life (to my knowledge), not sure what to do about her and this situation. We have had a great relationship and half live together but the last month has been rocky.

Been dating my GF since last October and we became official on NYE. Funny enough we’re from the same hometown, but she had signed a lease an hour away literally the day before we met. Since then we basically half live together — I’m usually at her place Friday-Monday and sometimes another day during the week.
About 3 weeks ago we had a pretty bad fight, then another one last weekend after I noticed a guy on her Snapchat I didn’t recognize. In the saved chat there was also an older picture of her in a push-up bikini saved. When I asked about it she got really defensive at first and said it was just a friend from college. I kept pushing because the picture felt weird, and eventually she admitted it was actually a guy she talked to after her last ex and before me (along with another guy).
For context, early in our relationship I already lost some trust because I later found out she was still sleeping with the guy before me while also seeing me back in November. At the time she didn’t want to become exclusive yet even though we were sleeping together consistently, which caused a whole separate issue between us and took a while for me to finally get her to stop talking to him (February and I had to find his number and tell him she had a boyfriend)

She told me the Snapchat was harmless, that he had only sent “Hey!” at like 2am, and she didn’t want me seeing it because she knew I’d worry. She also said she didn’t know how to delete the saved picture/chat. Since then she has been weird/protective with her phone and changed her passcode, which obviously didn’t help my anxiety. At the same time, she did show me her Snapchat last night and today and nothing looked suspicious but not sure if there’s something being hidden. I also used to have access to her ring doorbell and it looks like she logged me out and changed her password.

I have her location on snap.

Am I overthinking this or does this not add up and is sus.