u/Unlucky-Opposite-565

Hi guys,

I (female almost 35) and my husband (almost 33) have been married 11 years and have a 9 year old, level 3 autistic child. Our marriage is really great but sometimes I get burnt out when it comes to chores. He's a sous chef and works nights, mornings, weekends, holidays... you name it. I work from home as a medical appointment scheduler Monday through Friday from 7am - 330pm. Our son goes to school Monday through Friday and his grandad takes him to and from.

Lately I feel so burnt out. I've asked my husband to pick one chore to do constantly either before or after work to try and lighten the load but it doesn't help much because sometimes he doesn't have time to do it. How do busy couples get the chores done?

Hi guys, kinda need some help please.

I have an almost 2 year old, spayed female mix.

She is usually really good going into the kennel and staying there quietly but recently (about a month ago) she's started to whale eye me as i close the door then bark, growl and just cause havoc. Once it's closed she's fine. It's almost like she's pitching a fit but also kind of scary. She doesn't do this when i give her a treat while putting her away. Anyone have any advice about what's causing this behavior?

I have been on Finch for 25 days and have really enjoyed it! However, I think my one complaint so far is the lack of customization. Like, in my room, I want ALL the plants, not just to change them out over and over and do the outfit options ever change? I know that there is a certain wardrobe for the challenges and stuff if i want to buy them but for the most part it's just Summer and Winter clothes. Will this change the longer I am on Finch? I know there are options I don't have access to yet but they kind of just look like different versions of what I already have, I have 4,520 coins and they are burning a hole in my pocket but I don't know how to spend them haha lol I don't have plus btw

Hey guys!

Here's a list of all the albums he recommended so far 🥰

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1. Damien Rice - "O"

2. David Gray - "White Ladder"

3. Lauryn Hill - "The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill"

4. Fred - "Actual Life"

5. Imogen Heap - "Speak For Yourself"

6. Snow Patrol - "Fallen Empires"

7. Hozier- "Hozier"

8. Maisie Peters - "The Good Witch"

9. Stormzy- "Gang Signs & Prayers"

10. Sex Pistols - "Nevermind The Bollocks"

11. Kate Bush - "Hands of Love"

12. Alanis Morissette - "Jagged Little Pill"

13. Joni Mitchell - "Blue"

14. NAO - "For All We Know"

15. Passenger- "Whispers"

16. Zack Bryan - "Zack Brown"

17. Bon Ivor - "Bon Iver"

18. Aretha Franklin- "Young, Gifted and Black"

19. Coldplay - "Parachutes"

20. Sinead O'Connor - "I Do Not Want What I Haven't Got"

21. Olivia Rodrigo- "Guts"

22. James Morrison- "Undiscovered"

23. Passenger - "All The Little Lights"

24. Renee Rapp - "Snow Angel"

25. The Beatles - "Revolver"

26. Foy Vance - "Hope"

27. Stevie Wonder - "Fulfillingness First Finale"

28. Gracie Abrams - "The Secret of Us"

29. Remi Wolf - "Big Ideas"

30. Norah Jones - "Feels Like Home"

31. Twenty One Pilots - "Clancy"

32. James Blunt - "Stars Beneath My Feet"

33. Fleetwood Mac - "Rumors"

34. No Doubt - "Tragic Kingdom"

35. Ray Lamontagne - "Trouble"

36. Eminem- " Marshall Mathers LP"

37. Amy Whinehouse - "Back To Black"

38. 50 Cent - "Get Rich or Die Trying"

39. Bob Dylan - "The Freewheeling Bob Dylan"

40. Bob Dylan - "The Times They Are A-Changing"

41. Elton John - "Madman Across The River"

42. Bruce Springsteen - "The River"

43. Alicia Keyes - "Songs In A Minor"

44. Van Morrison and The Cheiftons - "Irish Heartbeat"

45. Dusty Springfield - "Dusty in Memphis"

46. Britney Spears - "Baby One More Time"

47. The Darkness - "Permission To Land"

48. Shania Twain - "Come On Over"

49. Madonna - "Like A Prayer"

50. Carole King - "Tapestry"

51. Carly Simone - "No Secrets"

52. Jasmine Sullivan - "Heaux Tales"

53. Macy Gray - "Macy Gray On How Life Is"

54. Eurythmics - "Touch"

55. Destiny's Child - "The Writings on the Wall"

56. Black Sabbath - "Paranoid"

57. Don McLean - "American Pie"

58. Van Morrison - "Moondance"

59. Nina Simone - "Nina Simone Sings The Blues"

60. Dr Dre. - "2001"

61. Bon Ivor - "Bloodbank EP"

62. Kendrick Lamar - "Good Kid, m.A.A.d. City"

63. The Beatles- "Rubber Soul"

64. Sam Smith - "The Lonely Hour"

65. Chappel Roan - "The Rise and Fall of a Midwest Princess"

66. Sabrina Carpenter - "Short N' Sweet"

67. Paulo Nutini - "Sunny Side Up"

68. John Mayer - "Continuum"

69. Chris Stapleton - "Traveller"

70. Noah Kahan - "Live At Fenway Park"

71. Role Model - "Kansas Anymore"

72. Jason Isbell - "Foxes In The Snow"

73. Benny & Selina - "Benny and Selina: I Said I Love You First"

74. Faye Webster - "Underdressed For The Symphony"

75. Doechii - "Alligator Bites Never Heal"

76. Bon Iver - "Sable Fable"

77. Megan Maroney - "Am I Okay?"

78. James Blunt - "Back to Bedam Demos"

79. Addison Rae - "Addison"

80. Amble - "Reverie"

81. Regina Spektor - "Begin to Hope"

82. Mk.gee - "Two Star and the Dream Police"

83. Snow Patrol - "The Forest is the Path"

84. Linkin Park - "Hybrid Theory"

85. Audioslave - "Audioslave"

86. Moncreif - "Maybe Its Fine"

87. Ben Kweller - "Cover the Mirrors"

88. Fink - "Biscuits for Breakfast"

89. Jon Bellion - "The Human Condition"

90. Royal Otis - "Hickey"

91. Mule Variations- "Tom Waits"

92. Luke Combs - "Fathers and Sons"

93. Dave - "The Boy Who Played The Harp"

94. Paul Simon - "Still Crazy After All These Years"

95. Robbie Williams - "Life Thru A Lens"

96. Corrine Bailey Rae - "Corrine Bailey Rae'

97. Megan Moroney - "Cloud 9"

98. Shakira - "Laundry Service"

99. Jade - "Thats Showbiz Baby"

100. Asake - "Work of Art"

101. Luke Combs - "The Way I Am"

102. Wings - "Wings Box Set"

103. Dido - "No Angel"

104. Lewis Capaldi- "Divinely Uninspired to a Hellish Extent"

105. Maisie Peters - "Florescence"

I didn't count the episodes where Ed was promoting his stuff haha

I am an almost 40 year old women who has a husband and child and sometimes i get jealousof other cultures that have a strong sense of family and heritage. My mom was adopted and grew up here in the South, my dad's family is from the North... my husband's family are from the Carolinas. One side was farmers but the farm is gone now, passed away with the family members who lived there. I only have 2 cousins that I never see, my husband doesn't see his either. He has 2 siblings in different stages of their lives, I have 3, same boat. I think I am looking for a sense of belonging. There isn't a family restaurant that has been passed down for years, there isn't Sunday dinners for the ones who can make it. It's a double edged sword because when we are all together we don't talk, not even my parents. And maybe that's it, maybe if we all liked each other a bit more we would have a better bond. We don't have a heritage or background to fall into where we would always feel welcome. I hope i am making sense, I just feel like if I had something that represents family and support that I wouldn't feel so alone.