r/finch

Edit: I just wanted to say thank you for verging that has commented because I’m just crying over here not realizing how much it’s worth it to try and find another way to help msyelf, I know finch may not have been right for me but that doesn’t mean it won’t work for anyone else. Anyways I just wanna say a big thank you to everyone because this means a lot to me cause I don’t really have anyone

Hello, so I made a post here before trying to get friends on here but now I’m realizing how much Finch does the complete opposite to me, it used to feel like it helped with self-care but now it’s starting to feel like a game and I do have the settings off for it to feel like a self-care app, but it’s not working for me anymore and I feel guilty

I don’t know what to do because I can’t really communicate to the people on my friends list in the app that I can’t do it anymore and I just don’t know an app isn’t helping self-care. I need something else.
I also really don’t feel like trying to argue with people of how to get the app to work because it’s simply will not work. I’ve been on and off since it came out and it just doesn’t fit for me.

I’m so ashamed I’m doing so mentally awful and it’s only getting worse and I just can’t do the app anymore. I can’t it’s too much.

I hope you all can understand…

I don’t want Finch to remove me because I’m too mentally ill

I'm so sad that our birbs don't do the icecream dance anymore. It was so cute! I wish the devs would put that animation back! 😭

Now when you or a friend sends icecream it's just tame. Why did they take out the animation?

Hey everyone
Please be kind…
My son really likes his finch app. It’s helping him a lot. Recently he got to the part where he got cheeks and must not have been paying attention or something and ended up with yellow cheeks. We checked the store for other colors but he is just not a fan of the cheek situation in general. Is there a way to remove cheek color completely? For some reason the cheeks are REALLY bothering him. I haven’t been able to find a way to toggle them off, am I able to? I realize this is an odd situation..
Thank you!

Muffin and Toril, I don’t know if this is ok to do but I just needed to say it somewhere. I appreciate you so much. You have been an incredible finch friend during a really hard time in my life.

I love all of my tree friends so much and have had most for a long time. I truly care about each and every one of them.

I wonder if a way to contact our friends would be possible, granting they like accepted it that is. I love the privacy and anonymity of finch a lot, but using it for so long and having such great finch tree friends, it’s really making me wish I could at least thank them.

I think will probably get deleted but hopefully they see it or others might feel the same way.

Thank you Finch.

Hi everyone,

I lost my dad this week, and even though I had mentally prepared for this moment for years (he’d had so many close calls), I still cannot handle this weight of heavy grief that has overcome me. I dealt with grief after losing my grandmother whom I was extremely close to, but the loss of a parent you’re close to has been a different kind of grief. He was a good man who tried so hard throughout life. An honest, hard worker who provided for his family of six and who wound up getting some unfortunate series of events in his final 15 years. Extremely talented, big heart, and just deserved so much more than he received.

I never thought I would post about this, but I am so heartbroken in grief that I needed to reach out to more people.