u/Thewitchestable

Does anyone know on which type of t-shirts the official merch were printed?

I've seen a couple on grailed. All on Gildan shirts.

Are these the official ones?

I'm writing this at 5.30am CEST just woke up from the craziest nightmare I had in a while. I am prone to them, they usually reflect a fear of abandonment (seeing my partner with another, being left on the street and seeing a car drive away).

This one was different.

My partner [32M] and I [25F] were walking in the city at night past busy cafe's, buildings on either side of us all along the street.

I was smoking for some reason (I do not smoke) and was exagerating how nasty it was and making gagging noised, we were both laughing. I threw the sigarette on the floor and some dude who was sitting on the terrace of the cafe with his friends grabbed it to smoke. We stopped a bit further jn the street for whatever reason and were chatting. In the distance in a different street further away stood a very tall building. It was the focus point of the sky and in my dream it was sort of very central.

I saw EXTREME lightning strike the building and all throughout the air. Like apocalypse extreme. There was a 2 second gap where I just knew this is going to be bad and braced myself for eardeafening thunder. I covered my ears and there the thunder was. It rumbled through the windows and our bodies and before we knew it, the building just broke off and collapsed.

People were panicking and I saw that the building behind my partner was collapsing as well. I quickly pulled him to me to protect him and we RAN.

The whole street of buildings just collapsed, one by one, starting further away from us and coming to us as a tsunami of a shockwave broken buildings.

We ran and ran and darted into a small side street to get out of the big road and I thought we should get to an open field as to nog get caught in the rubble, but the next street we walked into was like horror-galore and at that point I woke up.

I usually am good at interpreting my dreams and have this old school dream interpretations book, but this felt big...

Can someone offer insight? ❤️

I'm still reeling a bit from how panicked I felt in the dream.

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Hi everyone!

Im going to Seelisberg in a couple of weeks and would love to know if there are any rivers in the mountains or nearby where you can swim?

My partner disappoints me everyday...

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Can someone tell me if I need to adjust expectations or if this is valid to want and search for in a relationship.

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We do not live together, have been together for a year.

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Whenever I do the dishes at his place or clean or whatever, he does not thank me. He doesn't even acknowledge it.

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We have discussed that I want clear communications via text/calling when we are not around eachother. He does not do this at all. He also never calls. He never lets me know anything.

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He likes seeing me, but does not initiate. When I suggest something he says "yeah it's okay by me if you come over".. there is no energy of YES please I want to see you.

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And don't get me started on the sex... I'm so pissed off right now! We used to have great sex a lot and now he barely touches me. When we do have sex I never have an orgasm and we have discussed this as well for months.

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I know there is not a lot of context to this post and I am writing this in just utter frustration!!!

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But someone please tell me, do I need to learn how to tolerate more daily stuff or am I right in no F that and find someone that fits my needs better?

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I have had 2 previous relationships which were very abusive and this is my first relationship where it is loving and not abusive.. like a 'normal' relationship and I think my system is a bit in override and I am re-learning loving someone.

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Anyway.. thanks for reading ❤️

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Hi hi,

Heeft iemand tips voor rollerskate lessen in omgeving Alkmaar en/of Amsterdam?
Als kind heb ik heel veel geskeelerd, maar ik wil nu toch rollerskaten proberen! Ik heb het een paar keer los gedaan als uitje, maar daar leer je het niet echt van.

Heeft iemand tips hoe te starten als beginner? En waar je lessen kan volgen?

I just had an intake appointment with a new psychologist. Just wanted to share on here because I love this community so much and ask for support; some nice words or just knowing that I am not alone.

I am absolutely exhausted.. My sweet finch Sula is on her adventure now haha, looking forward to what she will bring home.

The appointment went well, but talking about all the things you're experiencing, mental health etc. is just so (emotionally) draining and I'm feeling very sensitive right now.

Lots of love to the community❤️

So, I have been dealing with cystic acne all my life on and off, but now I am just sooo done with it.

I stopped with any form of birth control 1.5 years ago cause I did not want all the extra hormones in my body. My period is still adjusting to this because I've been on hormonal birth control all my life.

But the thing that just f's me up is the cystic acne on my chin.

I have recurring cysts on my chin, more or less always on the same spot. My skin will clear for 2 days and it looks good and then a cyst pops up. And it hurts so bad.

Then smaller ones will appear around it. It takes around 3 weeks for them to completely go away. 2/3 days of clear skin and the cycle repeats.

So, does anyone have any insights or advice?

I wanted to share some good news because I am ridiculously happy!! I was finally able to have good and painless sex again😍😍😍

I've posted many times on this sub with complaints, questions, feelings of despair... a big thank you to everyone in this sub for the support❤️

If anyone else would like to share their wins, related to LS or not haha, please feel free!

It struck me today that I have not had any suicidal idiations for a couple of months to maybe 1 or 1.5 years.

In the midst of it all, people are very supportive but also anxious around you. But now, me and my surroundings barely talk about it. Life moves on. And I am happy that it does! But I have been overwhelmed by loneliness that I could not really place.

It feels so strange to just live my life. To go on and grow and feel better. Ive met many new people and they're amazing... but it feels lonely sometimes.. they don't know, and could never know, the extent of my expierenced suffering at that time. All these new people have met a completely different person than who I was a couple of years ago and maybe I just struggle to reconcile the different versions of myself?

I am not sure how to put words to it or what exactly it is that I am feeling now... But I wanted to share and see if maybe other people can resonate?

If you feel you want to comment something, please be gentle because this is still a sensitive topic for me and I guess many others.

Hi everyone,

My boyfriend (31) and I (25) have been together for a year and I enjoy our sexlife, but there has also formed a resistance.

He does not really pleasure me as much. He does not spend time on carressing my body, fingering me etc. I've mentioned it a couple of times and still nothing changed.

We have had 2 in depth conversations about it. Where he expressed that he felt a certain shame about not being able to please me as much or doing it wrong or something.

But the main thing that bothers me is that it feels like my pleasure is an afterthought for him. I enjoy sex just as it is and the experience, but I also want to orgasm. Often times he finishes before me and he doesn't even ask if I came, if I want to finish as well. I asked him multiple times if he could just ask (bare minimum....) and not even necessarily get me to an orgasm. And he does not ask.

I am getting very annoyed with him. At this point I felt so resentful that I was like we'll just have sex and afterwards I'll just go to the bathroom to finish myself off. And that is absolutely not the kind of relationship and sexlife that I want.

Since my annoyance and resentment has grown I also do not really get wet anymore. I get aroused, but that's about it. When he does engage in foreplay and touching my clit for example, it does nothing anymore...

I have no idea how to continue with this, because I do love my boyfriend a lot, but I feel like I have tried everything to get through to him and it feels like he just doesn't care about my pleasure... Which is nothing like him and his character as a person.

Does anyone have any suggestions or advice?

Back with another question!

I used to love going to the sauna/spa.

Does anyone here with LS still go?

I am worried that it will affect me too much or cause irritations or such.

So I (F25) have been diagnosed with mild LS. I had slight white discoloration and two small fissures. Nothing too bad so I feel lucky. But sex became quite painful.

I started using clobetasol 6 months ago. Now on 3x a week and cetomacrogol during the day. It has helped immensely! My doctor also says everything looks good. BUT!

Pentrative intercourse is still painful. No tears, nothing on the skin (as far as I can tell). But my vaginal canal has a slight burning sensation after intercourse and also if I use a toy carefully. It doesn't matter how slow I take it or how much lube we use... The burning sensation sometimes gradually gets worse over time and it gets worse after peeing.

I'm starting to doubt if this is LS related? My doctor only said to continu using the creams and see how it goes.

Does anyone have similar experiences and/or advice?

This sub has been a life safer and I feel deeply grateful that it exists❤️