u/Used_Theory_7662

Ever since I moved into this house in August I’ve had things happening. I used to work night shift so I would gradually move my stuff into my new house in the middle of the night since I was awake. I was cleaning my bathroom and I seen a man staring at me through my window. I honestly froze, I just sat there staring at him for 5 minutes before calling my boyfriend who was actively on the way to the house. I’m not sure why I didn’t call the cops, I didn’t even think to. He called the cops while we were on the phone. When they showed up he was gone. Ever since then I hear a man talking outside of my house in the middle of the night. I’ve heard it outside of my bedroom window, outside my living room window, I’ve seen a man walking in front of my cars and disappearing behind my house. I convinced myself I was crazy until a friend was over a few weeks ago. We both heard him talking. I don’t have any male neighbors that live even remotely close to me, I really don’t have any neighbors who live super close to me and don’t share a driveway or yard with anyone. Then the reality of it sunk in. It’s the same man from the first night, I finally realized it after seeing him again . A different friend just left the house not even 20 minutes ago and texted me that she heard a man whispering right by my front door. She doesn’t even know about this since I haven’t really said anything to anyone except my boyfriend. I know I should call the cops, but I’ve been told they won’t do anything. I’m so scared every second when I’m here alone. I don’t know what to do.

While replying to a comment I remembered that while my younger sister lived with me she heard him too. I went to the gas station right down the street and she heard someone talking. She texted me to ask if I was home but I had just pulled into the gas station. I raced back home and he wasn’t there.

I got her about 2 months ago and have had no problems with her eating. I left her alone so she could get comfortable and explore for 2 and a half weeks. I would get her out a few times through the week after that except the day before her feeding and 2 or 3 days after. About 3 weeks ago I noticed some spots on her and was super confused and started looking into it, I noticed they were moving and immediately knew something was wrong. I took everything out of her enclosure, replaced the substrate with paper towels and gave her a different hide, a water bowl and gave her a soak. Since then she hasn’t eaten. She will show interest but won’t act on it. She’s 4 months old and I’m getting worried. I know they can go awhile without eating but I don’t want her to have problems because of it. Any tips?