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So last year we got Barbenheimer, then I remember in September of last year people tried to start up, Saw-Patrol. In December, we will be getting
Dunes-day. And next week it’s evil dead Moana or Moana burns. Take your pick. I’m just curious what everyone’s opinion is.

As for me, I won’t be able to attend the theater next weekend. But evil dead is not my thing so I would probably going to see Moana. I am also curious what you would be watching other than the two options below.

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So I am a female in my early 40s. My mom just turned 70 last year, and due to trauma she had when I was a child (two car accidents a few years apart), she can’t drive on the freeway without receiving a migraine. She and I both care for my autistic brother who has high support needs. For the most part, he can take care of himself, but he needs constant supervision. So every other week I spend three days at her house. While she takes a respite at a friend’s house. I will admit I love my brother, but with his need for constant supervision, a lot of his care is emotional labor. The deal is her friend picks her up (usually on a Wednesday). She spends three days there, and then I take my brother to a movie that Friday and since her friend’s house is on my way home, I pick her up. Now we agreed a while back that if I have to make a special trip, that would be $25. I myself do not have a car. I use her cars when I am staying at the house caring for my brother. When we first made this deal, she told me that wasn’t right since I’m her daughter and they’re her cars, she should not have to pay me anything, but it is my time. Next time I go there, I will be unable to be in the neighborhood of her friend’s house, so I will be making a special trip, which would be the $25. Today she calls me and tells me it should be less, somewhere between $ 12.50 and $ 17, because it is her car. Besides picking her up, I also am basically her accountant. My dad passed 2 1/2 years ago, and for reasons I won’t get into here, managing her finances fell to me. I manage her mortgage payments, her property taxes, her car payments, her credit card payments, and utilities. I get paid for this as well. So with everything I manage for her financially, am I being fair sticking to the $25 agreement or am I being the bad apple?

So I have been married to my husband about seven months now. I am over 40 and I don’t know if it matters, but there is at least two decades between us. We do enjoy being intimate together. But he just told me today that he’s more anxious about us being intimate because of how long it takes me to be satisfied. Which can take a few hours. And then a lot of the day is gone. I know men climax very quickly, and it can take a bit longer for women to orgasm and it can happen multiple times. We have discussed it and he thinks that I’m just keep asking for because I’m not satisfied. I told him I enjoy what he can give me and I would work on trying to be satisfied so the entire day wouldn’t be eaten away with just having sex. I do squirt (like we need multiple layers to protect the bed.) when we are intimate, but I think only two or three times since we have been married have I actually orgasmed. ( Feeling the explosion and the sleepy refractory period afterward)He asked me to do research online and maybe ask a doctor about a reason why I’m this way. But I really think it has a lot to do with the fact that I waited so long to have a husband to be with him in that way. I just wanna enjoy it and keep going. For some context he has been in a few previous marriages before me. And obviously he is my first and I would happy to be my only. I’m just wondering since I remained a virgin before marriage would that be the reason I still want to keep going even though we have other things to do.

Edit: some comments stated that my post was unclear, and I realized their information missing. Hopefully what edited makes more sense.