u/VegetableGirl7960

Hi guys, this week has been so rough. I haven't had a week like this since the week OF the D&E, which says a lot. I don't see my therapist until Saturday, so bear with me.

Monday, I started seeing my clinic again.

Tuesday, I get TWO texts from my friends that they're pregnant with their second baby.

Wednesday, I see my friend, who was two weeks ahead of me is at the hospital. Giving birth to her healthy baby.

Basically, I've been crying all week and feel like absolute garbage about how negative I feel about everyone's situation. I have had the ugliest thoughts about my closest friends.

It's just so unfair. Why did this have to happen to us? Why were we the chosen ones to experience such an unfair and tragic loss? Why were they able to have a healthy baby?

I know life is unfair but damn this hurts so bad.

Hi all,

How long after TFMR did you get pregnant?

My fertility clinic believes in waiting 6 months for the body to heal. They are allowing me a June transfer if all looks good but now I'm nervous about doing it 4 months later vs the 6 months they recommend. I mean granted, they're not going to proceed with a June transfer if labs/uterus doesn't look good but I guess I'm looking for some reassurance.

Thank you in advance!

Hi pregnant ladies,

I can't get pregnant naturally. Only via IVF. I got pregnant first try with my TFMR baby.

I'm finally in talks with my clinic again, and
I'm excited to get started again, but I'm also so worried and scared.

I feel like I'm finally in a better place emotionally....

What if I don't get pregnant first try again?

What if it's months of uncertainty again?

It sounds triggering AFFFF. I've worked so hard to get to the place I'm at now so go backwards again.

Did you guys feel this way too before conceiving or am I just talking to the void?

I'm gearing up to see my fertility doctors again and prep for transfer.

Right now it feels like I'm so behind in life when it comes to starting a family.

All my friends in my life who I see all the time have their first kid, one of my bffs just had her second. I was so excited to finally join the club.

Now that it's been ripped away from me, I feel left out again.

I know it'll happen for me but will it bother me as much that they already started their family years before I did once I finally get my baby?

I would hope that once I finally get my healthy baby, it won't matter how many kids they have or had before me... right?

Hi all,

I'm wondering if anyone had to be cleared by their MFM for their IVF clinic to proceed with an embryo transfer?

I finally spoke to my fertility clinic after 2 cycles, and they requested I have a pre-pregnancy consultation with my MFM before they give me the green light to transfer an embryo. I was 23 weeks pregnant before terminating.

I'm freaking out that he's going to say it's too soon, but IS IT? I just want to move on from this chapter of my life. I'm ready to welcome new life and a new chapter. I won't have this meeting for another 3 weeks. Blahhhhh