Alternatives to being a Big Brother

Thank you for all your advice on pursuing this volunteer opportunity. I attended the interview and it seems that the interviewer believes I could still be a Big. However, I looked at my original post and agree with your statements regarding the concern of a short-lived relationship. I do have time to think about this further since my background checks are still in progress for another few weeks.

I have 9 months before med school applications open. I currently have an ongoing volunteering opportunity but I additionally wanted to pursue one that pertains to youth mental health/mentorship. Are there any potential alternatives that you can suggest for me?

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u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 4 days ago
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Deciding whether being a Big Brother is possible for me.

Applying to the Big Brother Big Sister program to be a Big. I'm a medical assistant 4 days a week, mostly from 9-5 with Wednesday and the weekend off. I have another volunteer opportunity on Wed in the morning. However, I'm also working on my essays before applying to medical school in May.

For everyone that's been a big, would I be able to stay true with a connection with a little given my schedule/agenda?

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u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 9 days ago
▲ 3 r/Mcat

Post-07/11 Reflection

6 days since taking exam 07/11. I wanted to provide a reflection here on my strategy, my strengths, and what I could have done better. Please provide any suggestions on how I could improve it if I do need a retake, and feel free to say if there's anything that you think you could have done better! THIS IS NOT A GUIDE, just my own experience.

Content Review

  • I definitely benefitted in B/B from using pre-made flash sheets and adding U-World information to them. I effectively encoded the biochemical cycles and primary organ system functions because of it, though I will say that spaced repetition was HARD. There were days that I would do 4-5 flash sheets in one day, and that took up A LOT of time I could have spent on more exposure to material on U-World.
  • My C/P strategy was different. Instead of flash sheets, I just did practice questions to see what content gaps I needed to fill and then strengthened my memory of them via Anki. I think I would have benefitted from a more structured approach. P/S was basically the same, just exposed myself to terminology and Anki'd any terms I didn't know.
  • My study duration was hella inconsistent, ranging from 6-10 hours a day, but it was pretty structured because I knew what was on my agenda for each day.
  • I should have immediately used AAMC CARS question banks instead of JackWestin passages. It was not at all representative of how CARS was for AAMC material or the actual exam. I remember taking FL1 and getting overwhelmed by how much longer the passages were, like a jump from Level 1 to Level 10. I wish I had a better strategy for this section but that's just how things go.

AAMC Bank and Practice

  • I would have ditched the Google sheets and just learn material on the spot for every question. I feel like I wasted time making a pretty sheet and categorizing my mistakes when I could have been more straight up about my mistakes.
  • I could have completely finished the AAMC question banks I had a good amount of practice questions left, but I couldn't get myself to maintain that load towards exam day.
  • I definitely could have managed my stress better. Too many late nights doom scrolling leaked into the following day being ineffective study days and an inability to focus.
  • I'm glad I didn't take FL6 a few days before exam day. I don't think I would have been able to handle the stress of not being within score range compounded with the general stress of ensuring that exam day was to my favor.

Overall, I'm proud of myself for overcoming any self-doubt and taking this exam. I've learned so much from it but I could have done a handful of things better. Anybody else feel the same?

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u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 1 month ago
▲ 41 r/premed

Any doctor YouTubers that are still in medicine and NOT leaving?

Title. Just took my MCAT and just trying to find some medicine hope-core content because that's the attitude I want to try my best to maintain since it's only the beginning. I've seen too many videos about the harsh realities, more so, the reasons why people leave, but I'd like some suggestions for channels that have a lighter demeanor while working in the profession. Any suggestions?

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u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 1 month ago
▲ 3 r/Mcat

Drop last-minute CARS tips so I can clutch a 125.

I am trying NOT to be cooked for CARS, goal is a 125 on 07/11 exam but FL 5 absolutely cooked me with a 123. I'm sorry to be posting about CARS for the 10th time but I'm fr in a corner. I've tried pretty much the most recent strats yall gave me but the diagnostic scores didn't translate to FL5 performance. Here's my current strat:

  • Highlighting to understand and highlighting key words that could be tested.
  • Briefly summarizing each paragraph but they cannot stay in my head once I get to questions.
  • Generating a main idea after reading.
  • Mental mapping along with the highlights, but for some reason I cannot for the life of me keep a solid mental map in my head.
  • I do not take notes bc past attempts to do that slowed me down HELLA.
  • POE based on categories like half-correct trap, unrelated trap, incorrect focus trap, etc.

Anything is appreciated! Happy exam week to 07/11ers!

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u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 2 months ago

EPISODE 14 NOOOO BRUH

It can't end like that broooooo 😭🙏

  • Generally speaking, I love that the complexity of the romance. It's a slow burner because of character flaws and inner conflicts. Koyuki, for example, wasn't able to see Minato as nothing more than a friend because of both the enjoyment of the group's status quo and the core belief that she doesn't deserve that, or simply to be cared about in that way. Miki has the valid reason of feeling uncertain because she simply never thought that she was seen as more than just a friend, so now she's stuck in this in-between-state.
  • BRO, I was (mildly) screaming "NOOOOO" when Miki was reasoning out how a relationship could work out with Yota. She feels fully accepted by him, which compells her consider trying it out due to her perception that nobody else embraces her like he does. Her scarcity in self-love/acceptance almost pushes her to say yes, but then she (THANKFULLY) expresses her honest uncertainty about the whole situation. Further supports my last point about the complexity of the romance in this.
  • You CANNOT end the season with Miki crying her heart out like that bro, with the upbeat end music too. WTF is this JJK Shibuya arc? Obsession? Miki ain't Nikki bro 😭😭😭
  • Also, Yota is a GOAT in handling this whole situation. For someone that's hidden their feelings for so long, he's keeping strong composure and even ensuring that Miki's okay. Male role model right here ngl.
  • BRO I swear Momoka just wants the fucking smoke. It's like she's rubbing it in Koyuki's face that she's gonna go for Minato AFTER she tells her that he likes her. Like BRUH leave my girl Koyuki alone, she's trying hard to navigate all of these feelings.
  • I looked at Minato during the dinner scene and I'm like, "new outfit inspo." Bro is a HANDSOME man ngl. Just wish my hair would lock in the same way.
  • I tried taking a screenshot of Minato and Koyuki sitting next to each other with the sparklers, but to no success. That shit had me blushing, so cute.

OCTOBER PLEASE come sooner oml. I'm so glad S2 is coming out so soon because ain't no way I could wait that long for peak romance to come back. GOATED S1.

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u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 2 months ago

Miki and her capping in my Anki deck

I'm an anime-only studying for the MCAT and decided to make Miki as an example of one of the terms LMAO

u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 2 months ago
▲ 62 r/Mcat

Applying material to my apparent decline in studying because cope

I was STRONG in the Resistance phase, 6-10 hours a day hitting the flash sheets, doing 60-100 practice questions, and reviewing the fucking FLs. Thought that hanging out with the fam yesterday would re-energize me, but I'm already exhausted after a 5-hour session, with 7-8 hours of sleep mind you, with 6 days left until testing 07/11! I've hit the Exhaustion phase guys, wow, we love the application of material to real life!!! Cortisol elevation is really forcing some gluconeogenesis and glycogenolysis on me rn but they're barely helping me push through. This is truly peak MCAT material application 🤩🤩 I'm employing the Regression defense mechanism with the way I'm fucking coping right now lmaoooooo

u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 2 months ago

LATE but Episode 12 YAAAAAY!!!

AAAAAND WE BACK FOR ANOTHER EPISODE!!! Been so busy lately but I'm happy that I got to fit one in tonight.

  • The romance is starting to COOK. There were so many scenes between Minato and Koyuki that made me wanna giggle and kick my feet up, swear. I loved how Minato didn't expect Koyuki to be the one poking him on the cheek and his surprise. I honestly feel bad for the rollercoaster that Minato continues to be on. For a few days, Koyuki is closer, but then another day, she draws back (partially thanks to Momoka's comments grrrrr). Keep the head up king! She likes you frfr but those butterflies keep making her fly away. Sympathetic nervous system activation with crushes is REAAAAAAL.
  • Hayato is hilarious to me. His voice, his reactions to being in a different class from everyone else, from being improperly introduced... he's not a main character but he injects a lot of laughs in the scenes that he's in.
  • So happy that Miki and Yota got a day by themselves together, but the disconnect continues OMLLLL. She still misunderstands Koyuki's comfort with Yota as a romantic connection. I wish Koyuki would outright deny it, but where's the fun in that?
  • I feel like Miki was doin a... reaction formation, especially with that bubbly, "Besides, friends come first!" She likes himmmmmm OML Yota's gotta lock tf in and confess!
  • "Bros before hoes and chicks before dicks" HAHAHAHA, that brother-sister dance reminds me so much of Yuji and Todo's dynamic from JJK.
  • Love the small scene of Miki and Koyuki laying together and talking. It's just one of those many tiny moments that continue to effectively convey the experience of youth throughout the show.
  • Momoka... I was skeptical at first, especially when she kept prying into Koyuki on her male friendships, but when she was speaking FOR Koyuki to, presumably, drive Minato away so that she can get with him?? NAH NAH NAH now we've got problems! Looks like it's gonna be a triangle of sorts, with Momoka pulling strings to keep the two of them away from each other. Jeez, what a devious freshman she is showing up to be.
  • I'm confused about that end credits scene. What happened between Akine and Momoka? And why does Koyuki need to support her?? AAAAA until the next episode I guess.

The show continues to be one I look forward to watching. Love it and I'm excited to watch the next one!

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u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 2 months ago
▲ 1 r/Mcat

Take FL6 first or FL5?

Testing 07/11, 2 AAMC FLs left. Been seeing that FL6 is most representative, so should I prioritize taking FL6 over FL5? Thinking that would give me enough time to address the most relevant gaps/errors before exam day. What do you guys think?

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u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 2 months ago
▲ 5 r/Mcat

How do I get better at these types of O-Chem questions?

I realized from this question that I have difficulty understanding reactions/functional groups from reaction pathways like this. I had no idea that step 4 involved hydrolysis, saponification, and decarboxylation until I read the explanation here. Only part of this pathway I understood was NaBH4 being the reducing agent.

Any suggestions on improving O-Chem from this angle? Drawing out mechanisms? Anking key reaction setups?

u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 2 months ago
▲ 3 r/Mcat

Starting to give up on CARS, need advice on what to do.

From FL1 to 3 my scores have been 124 -> 125 -> 122. I've been doing AAMC practice since then employing various techniques with one that works with me in reading the passage but I just can't get question correctness. I'm confident that I have sound logic to get my sciences to 70-80th percentile, but I just can't crack CARS. Never felt so discouraged before.

I've used up most of the AAMC CARS material with less than half of Vol 2 bank left and majority of the diagnostic passages left. I don't have much confidence that I'll be doing better on this section in my remaining 3 FLs. I have less than three weeks until I test 07/11.

Are there any third-party resources that you recommend I use? Should I even keep trying to improve this section at this point given the time I have left and just reorient my focus to maxing out my sciences?

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u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 2 months ago
▲ 5 r/Mcat

AAMC Section Bank Vol 1 C/P #17

I folded like a protein here. How did you guys go about solving this problem?

u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 2 months ago
▲ 6 r/Mcat

Starting to throw my hands up at my efforts.

I think 75% of the questions I get wrong are because of either: misreading the fucking passage, misreading the question; misreading answer choices, or not catching the smallest FUCKING detail in the passage. Am I just fucking illiterate? Not only that I don't even know what to do about my CARS regardless of my efforts. I'm hesitant to even touch the CARS practice questions because my last session w/ the Q bank sucked. It's like I'm getting worse at CARS, at reading, at content, UGHHHHH BRUH.

Done studying for the night.

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u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 2 months ago
▲ 44 r/Mcat

My frustration is BEYOND WORDS.

3rd FL. Slight improvements in all subjects, happy about Bio... but OF COURSE IT'S STILL FUCKING CARS.

Immediately after my second FL, I spent money on a tutor, maybe too desperate an amount. Developed a solid strategy, and I was SO HAPPY when I was seeing improvement in my scores on the Q-Banks, like almost to the point of tears. Then I get to my 3rd FL, motivated to do even better... what happens?

Even after tracking time better than last time, this fucking time constraint forces me to guess my answers, and I get an even LOWER, LOWER score than before I got a fucking tutor.

Fuck this section and the unreasonable expectation to finish NINE passages in that amount of time. I'd be getting a positive score trend instead of this shit.

u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 3 months ago
▲ 2 r/Mcat

AAMC CARS QPack V1 improvement

I scored 124 on FL1 CARS and have been trying to improve through the first volume q-pack. I've been taking more than a minute on average per question and have generally scored low on the first 5 passages. I'm aware that the first pack is exceptionally difficult, but I'd like to understand how to get the most out of it and not waste the remaining passages. Here's the strategies I've employed so far, including ones I've seen on here:

  • Creating a Google sheet to identify types of questions I get wrong (main idea or specific passage information) and understanding why I got them wrong.
  • Highlighting key ideas, standout phrases, and quotes to create a roadmap of the passage.
  • Writing down a brief summary of each paragraph and main idea. This was the worst one because it took even longer for me to even get to questions.
  • Carefully reading the passage and briefly summarizing each paragraph in my head.

Any advice would help, thank you so much!!! 🙏

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u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 3 months ago

In the middle of a rewatch after binging all 10 episodes a few days before LOL.

I disagree with the hate people are giving Fionna’s character. Is she a mess? YES, for sure, but I think people forget that her messiness aligns with the conditions that she is in. 

Fionna was initially meant to be part of an alternative Ooo: an ambitious, audacious, impulsive, and strong-headed hero. She wanted to fix everything and help everyone, just like Finn. It was simply bad luck that Prismo needed to reduce her magical world to a more mundane one. 

Fionna retained all the traits that made her an effective hero in Ooo, but those qualities developed a sharper end of the sword due to the limits that her reality presents. Her stubbornness and audaciousness render her an impediment to the workforce, causing her to jump from job to job. Her magical ideas drive a pursuit of romantic fate, so resolute to the point of neglecting Fennel’s relationship with Phelix. Her heroic strengths have become lasting flaws. 

Additionally, Fionna’s persistent efforts to be the hero within a non-magical world results in letting friends down: overlooking a meeting that Hunter arranged for her, replacing Marshall Lee’s personal performance with a DJ Flame set, getting Marshall’s mom involved against his wishes, etc. I believe that young Finn would have ended up in a similar spot if his Ooo was like Fionna’s current universe. Nothing can be fixed by magic in the real world.

The contrast in perception between Fionna and Finn highlights the forgotten idea that most traits don’t have a fixed value. Rather, they vary depending on context and situation. Finn’s impulsiveness, whether deviating from a plan or manipulating your flame girlfriend to destroy the home of your ice friend was much less of a detriment, as many consequences could be ameliorated by magic and reality isn’t as restrictive as Fionna’s universe. On the other hand, Fionna’s impulsiveness stabs her in the back with financial troubles, home eviction, and less dependability. 

Ultimately, Fionna is an effective character despite her frustratingly poor judgment because it aligns with the conditions that were bestowed upon her. This would have been better conveyed if season 2 had more of a predominant focus on a single/few character arcs instead of numerous rushed ones. 

u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 4 months ago

...and I am ECSTATIC. I know that the theme was literally in the title, but "begged" shows a much closer look at the experience of this album will bring: the emotions stemming from a relationship that you just feel stuck in. The fun, oblivious times of the honeymoon phase are probably gonna be in the first part of the album, as introduced by "drop dead," followed by a gradual descent into the sad reality of the relationship. This will include absolutely powerful, honest ballads like "begged," but I also think that there will be songs that talk about the social angle of the relationship and possibly even criticize the public reception of the relationship, given that the title of the album being like a comment made towards her. That's my prediction, but regardless, I'm excited for the full work to release. June 12 cannot come any faster!

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u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 4 months ago
▲ 3 r/Mcat

I got C from area calculation. Why wouldn't you calculate the area under the graph here (therefore, using 1/2bh)? I thought that R * ρ/A would give you the resistivity, thus warranting a graph area calculation?

u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 4 months ago

Just finished rewatching Obsidian after rewatching the entire original series:

  • First off, HOLY SHIT, huge payoff seeing Bonnie and Marcy together after waiting so long for this relationship to flourish. It warms my heart seeing them be so affectionate to each other. It would've been nice if we got more insight into their relationship together, but that's what Fionna and Cake S2 is for, right?
  • Marceline stopped floating in her bed so she could sleep next to Bonnie... so fucking cute.
  • THE ACTION SCENES. I loved how much more fluid and sequenced the action scenes were. Seeing Marcy more dynamic in fight scenes was satisfying. I want more!
  • Glass Boy's character was annoying. I thought his scenes were severely misplaced. For instance...
    • We see Simon covering his sane/non-Ice King rendition of "Remember You," only for it to be disrupted by a Glass Boy shouting out to him. I'm probably just being picky and taking it personal for this point, but it would have been nice to hear more of it.
    • The scene where Marceline found her mom's last message to her was supposed to be EMOTIONAL, I mean it's the key moment that made her accept the past and be open to love again. We see a tearful, mourning Marcy only to be taken out of the experience by... Glass Boy... who immediately tries to relate to her by saying that they're both the same??? NOOO DUDE.
  • I've always appreciated the basis of the conflicts between Marceline and Bonnie. Marceline's bold and audacious demeanor clashed with PB's empirical and logical ways. Unfortunately, being stuck in their ways lead to the downfall of their relationship. We saw the ghosts of both characters come to haunt their relationship, and they faced them head on.
  • Marceline's "Monster" that she sang to Bonnie. *Chef's kiss*
  • The episode was messy from a theme standpoint. I understood the narrative of facing your demons with Marceline and arriving to acceptance, but we should have seen a little bit more of that arc with Bonnie too. After all, they both are, "...just messed up kids who taught ourselves how to live." Also, the "accepting your flaws/cracks" theme just felt out of place. I didn't really feel anything for the glass people because of how pretentious and judgmental they were. It didn't feel like it built up like how it was done with Marceline.

The episode could have been A LOT better, overall, but it's a Bubbline episode so I still love it.

u/VirtualAbalone5539 — 4 months ago