u/Vita-Incerta

Newly single 33F looking for the next chapter in life. I’ve done a lot of research because I have absolutely no clue where I want to move - probably because it doesn’t exist or I can’t afford it lol. My plan is to narrow down a couple of the best options and test them out. Hoping y’all can give me some good insight or ideas. I realize I probably won’t find somewhere that ticks all my boxes, but I haven’t done a ton of domestic travel so I don’t have a lot of personal experience to go on.

Must haves
- Car-light or car-free
- Mid sized or pocket of large city
- Design forward restaurants, cafes, & wine bars
- Pretty, human scale architecture
- Green spaces / tree-lined streets
- Easy to form community
- Clean
- 30’s dating scene
- Airport access
- Nice 1br on ~120k salary

Don’t like
- Overly gritty
- Brutal winters (can handle some snow)
- Extreme party / nightlife culture

Interests
- Interior design, matcha, travel, farmers markets, going to the library and movie theater, baking, Pilates, parks, walking, bike rides, occasional concerts or art events, book clubs

Places I’ve Tried
- Lived in: South Florida, Charleston
- Didn’t like: Boston (too bro), Washington DC (too career focused), Atlanta (not car-light or free), Charlotte (duh), Baltimore (great for a weekend but too gritty), Portland ME (love but too small), Seattle (too gritty? only there for a couple days)
- LOVE (cries in American & “poor”): Brooklyn, London (specific neighborhoods), Copenhagen

**Places I’m Considering**
- Richmond, VA
- Philadelphia (Rittenhouse)
- Mexico City

Newly single & just moved back after 15 years. Where are the best trivia nights for 30-somethings. I tried subculture and it was all high schoolers, probably have better chance at a bar. Anywhere WPB > JUP

Looking to take adult western riding lessons and trail rides. Here's the barns I've found, does anyone have experience with them? Any other recs? Open to Wellington, Jup Farms, basically anywhere within 45m of North Palm. TIA

Desert Rose

Joey's Ranch

Jupiter Farms Equestrian (have reached out 3 times with no response)

Casperey Stables

Pink Flamingo Stables (too expensive)

I finally have the opportunity to slowmad and would love to hear from more those more experienced! Your favorites might make me consider somewhere I wouldn’t have otherwise. Looking forward to hearing from you

I finally have the opportunity to DN and the idea of the slowmad lifestyle appeals to me. I want to hear from those with more experience; Maybe there are some places I wouldn’t have considered otherwise. I’d trial run any option before committing - just having fun hearing about your favorite experiences!

Happy to hear from anyone but especially interested in the EST female perspective for overlap & safety reasons.

What are your recommendations for a 33F somewhere coastal with cozy vibes and a strong sense of community? Yes, I want to live in a hallmark movie.

I work remotely in tech so I’m not worried about job markets. 110k salary, single

Must Haves
- Easy to get outside (biking, walks)
- Small town community
- Coastal
- Scenic
- Good food options (even if limited)

Nice to Haves
- No snow
- Progressive
- Within 1h of international airport