bf won’t let me go through phone
We been together for four years and when I love someone I tend to love to have trouble leaving due to not having a big support system or any friends in general. He has had social media behind my back liking posts of local woman etc. and he said he deleted his account but I think he secretly still has one I just can’t prove it. I don’t ask for much I just asked for basic respect.
Anyways, I let him know that I am the type to check phone, especially when shady things are going on and he said that’s perfectly fine and that he has no problem with that. I told him I can’t be with him if he won’t allow that since he’s done some of wierd stuff in the past. I am an open book. I always let him use my phone, but he always acts weird towards his.
Last night, I asked out of nowhere if I can see his phone and he said “ why didn’t you ask earlier? We are having a really good night.” so I asked “ why would me checking it ruin our night” and he just kept making excuses. I just went numb cause I’m tired of this and as predicted, he started acting so sweet after saying he wants to move in with me etc. (he never says things like this) This is not the first time he has not let me check his phone after saying I can.
I suck at leaving so I’m at the point where I’m just gonna do me and reciprocate his shadiness cause I want to get over him on my terms and when I’m ready so if I feel like talking to other people than I will, since he obviously has things to hide🤷🏻♀️
I don’t know why I’m making this post. I just need someone to convince me to leave.😭 cause clearly I can’t do it myself.
Do you think any person that reacts this way is hiding something??