I don't know if it's going to work. I'm not sure I'll know what I'm doing. I may end up disappointing and exhausting myself even more, but I don't care; I will change my circumstances. At the very least, I will do that.
There's some sort of social support network for essentially any psychological problem you can have, except romantic/sexual inexperience.
Are you an alcoholic? Alcoholics Anonymous.
Addicted to hard drugs? 12-step programs.
You have a treatable mental illness? Psychiatrists for the meds, therapists afterwards.
LGBT in a non-accepting area? Always someone you can be safe with online or otherwise.
But since our plight isn't immediately life-threatening, it's not seen as a "real" issue, despite the psychological and emotional anguish. Every therapist I've spoken to cannot relate whatsoever, as they all had a normal adolescence and met the right girl at the right place at the right time. Their advice always amounts to putting yourself out there / getting out of your own head, as if I'm not already doing that.
Especially if you're male, you're seen as the biggest loser if you try to bring this up with friends; there is literally nobody in my life I can speak to about this, so I post about it to Reddit anonymously to cope. I feel like a bomb that's going to burst. I wish this issue were socially acceptable to get help for.
thats all
I really want to be breastfed by a busty girl one day. Lying down, head on her lap, face completely smothered. It sounds so beautiful to me. I can't imagine something more intimate than your life being sustained by the nectar of a gorgeous woman.
Leftism seeks to create a world that guarantees safety at the price of autonomy.
In a socialist society (that worked), all your needs would be met, sure, but ultimately, your destiny is no longer in your hands. You'll be handed your state-procured ration of slop daily, barred from amounting to anything more.
They want to turn the whole world into some HR department, where you have to get communal approval to do anything- disgusting. I'd rather live in a world where I'm guaranteed nothing but could do anything.
And that it's not some fantasy thing that exists only in porn; it's actually real, and your average adult is doing it like every single day with someone whom they love- what?
I am so far removed from the average human experience; I want to die.
Have a social life, consistently push myself to get involved in tons of things even if I find it socially exhausting. Asked girls out, got lots of rejections. Stay fit, go to the gym, all that.
Gonna graduate single and enter a hyper male-dominated field. My only hope is dating apps, and they don't work for me.
No clue how people naturally find partners in real life anymore; I did the aforementioned things you should do in college, and it never seems appropriate to approach women in public. The reverse has never happened to me. And why would I expect it to? Personally, I would not like to be forced into a conversation with a stranger when I'm likely doing something, for no good reason.
Just venting, I truly don't know what real, tangible solutions there are for me. It feels like if you're born a bit awkward and/or weren't in the right place at the right time during your school years, you're just.. fucked.