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my gf broke up with me over text. what do i do? her text is below:

I don't even know how i fucking feel. I'm not getting emotional but im getting passive aggressive randomly.

context :

gf of 9 months. we live in adjacent cities 3 hours away. she was head over heels for me for the past 9 months. just fucked her brains out 2 weeks ago and made her cum like 3 times.

but something changed 2 days ago. yesterday she texted me about feeling anxious about our future. i called her and she cried a little bit. somehow i felt like i couldnt give her satisfactory reassurance. she talked about how she will be devastated in the future more if she gets more emotionally attached when we breakup. she was saying things about how she feels that she is more invested in me than i am in her.

her paragraph :

"again its very random but it is what it is.. I know you’ve treated me so well all this time and that you’ve genuinely liked me and honestly it breaks my heart to even type this but I feel like I have to.

For months, I’ve been constantly thinking about us and whether I should let myself seriously love you or not. And now that I’m at a point where my fear of love is taking over, I just don’t think I can do this anymore. I know you told me you’d stay, but maybe the problem is me. I know the way I want to live my life might never allow me to be yours forever, and I don’t want to keep you waiting for something I’m not sure I can give you.

I’m sorry for doing this, especially knowing you might never forgive me, and honestly, I don’t know if my own heart will forgive me either. But I feel like I need to do this to protect my peace and save myself from getting hurt even more in the future.

I came here for you, and somewhere along the way, I realised that I just can’t love you.. That doesn’t mean you didn’t matter to me. You’ll always have a place in my heart, and everything you’ve done for me is something I could never forget.

I’m truly sorry. I just don’t have the courage to face you after choosing to let my love for you go. Maybe someday, if you can forgive me, we’ll meet again. Until then, I hope you know that leaving was never because you weren’t enough. It was because I couldn’t fight my own fears anymore."

L: 6.5 normal or 7 BPEL

G: unknown

what the fuck do i reply?

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u/HeellessAchilles — 1 day ago

GTA 6 Bench Press form

Was watching the recent leaks and couldn’t help to notice bros bench form… wide ass grip, flared elbows.. that looks painful af

Can u imagine the rockstar devs at the gym brah

u/Next-Substance-7004 — 1 day ago

Wife points to a fat chick at the pool and asks, “have you ever been with a girl that big before?” I froze up and forgot how to speak for a minute.

What do you do in that situation? Chick wasn’t even that big to be honest. Probably a 1/3 of my biggest takedown. Wife is really skinny.

6.32457”

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u/HarambeTheBear — 1 day ago

Peptides for muscle growth

Hello,

Im a 29 years old male , and i’m seriously thinking about taking peptides for muscle building and recovery, im currently clueless about the ones that are “gold standards” and would love the sub to mention or talk about some.

Thank you

PS: I have 700 ng/dl total test
Dont know free test

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u/SnooRevelations6617 — 1 day ago

What helped you with anxiety and depression?

Which PED or anabolic steroid helped you the most with depression and anxiety?

I've read about people who have tried multiple treatments and experienced a significant improvement in their symptoms with PEDs. If that's your case, please share your experience and which compound you used.

I've read that Proviron and other DHT derivatives may be among the ones that help the most.

Please refrain from negative comments. I'm only interested in hearing about positive experiences. Thanks!

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u/No-Return8974 — 1 day ago

Which exercsies for Personality ?

21M.

I don’t know i have many mental issues.

I have adhd ( recently diagnosed but i knew had it for 3 years after getting to know about this condition ) and autism ( not diagnosed but i suspect, btw the real curse kind not the insta/twitter bullshit ).

I am weird and have masked it with a random personality since childhood( kinda copied from people’s talks / thoughts and jokes here and there ).

I don’t know what to do socially unless told to do something and then do it like a robot.
This things have been always present since i can remember(but i ignored it cuz i did’t know i have something wrong ) and is very visible since i joined college.

the two thing i want to do is :

  1. Get an actual

long term

  1. relationship ( i have hit and run in the past for the past few times but i feel like it’s due to my own social incapability and not due to my

immorality)

relationships usually went like :
> girls shows interest
> i kinda say pre-written scripts
> go on a date, don’t know wtf is happening (2-3x )
> maybe sleep
> don’t know what to do next
> chats get dry
> I break up cuz i feel like liability

  1. Also since i can’t even form shallow “hi,hello, what’s good nga ?” type of relations with people around me who i see daily for years , i have been falling behind in life due to the opportunities i lost.

What to do about this ?

L: max 7inch +- 0.2
G : idk

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u/BoobOrAsss — 1 day ago

Leaving this community.

This place used to be amazing. Bodybuilding advice, steroid talk, tren stories, etc etc.

It’s since turned into a cesspool of just weird fucking posts.

Cya

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u/FreshFeature1792 — 2 days ago

I think I look worse sub 14% body fat

Last year I was like 12% bf and even though I liked the better jawline, something was off about my face that I didn't like. I've been cutting again for a while and I'm again at around 12-13% body fat and I'm starting to feel the same again.

Is this just not being used to being lean that makes me feel this way or do some people actually just look worse leaner? I can imagine that being peeled can be more unattractive but at 12%? That's still should look healthy no? I have no contact to women so I can't get an expert opinion.

Length 2cm above European average, girth very average.

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u/Benkenobix — 1 day ago

In five years, women will be chasing men and experiencing what it’s like to be rejected, ignored, and friend-zoned. It will be too late for them by then, because we men will be busy with whales, twinks, and 6'2" trans women.

A new era

u/mucho_musculo1999 — 1 day ago

i have the testosterone of 5 adult male lions

Am i good? First time doing bloodwork. Running 800 test E for about 5 months straight with virtually no sides except insane boners and a bit of face acne. Did like 200mg of tren for like 3 weeks about 2 months ago but stopped because it made me a piece of shit

L 2.3 G 1.0

u/Chance_Nothing4246 — 1 day ago

What day of the (lifting) week to get shitfaced?

So it is almost fall, which means if you're an American you're spending every Saturday getting tanked in a parking lot as soon as the sun comes up. Now, with lifting six days per werk, what is the best schedule to minimize the gains-killing effects of alcohol. The first answer is to have it be the rest day, but I think that would harm my only true recovery day. Maybe shoulder+arms day and head straight to the tailgate afterwards hoping the pump lasts long enough until it is socially acceptable to take my shirt off? Idk seasoned bros help me out here.

Before you give my the whole "alcohol is the devil" shit Idgaf I lift to get shitfaced and shirtless.

5.5 x Fat Sharpie

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u/Ice-Poseidon-Knows — 1 day ago

How to build strength without adding mass?

Broskis, I don't know jackshit about this stuff but I'm looking to compete in hardcore untested grappling competitions in about 12 months time. Only the most homoerotic of the most homoerotic stuff of course. Anyway I need to increase explosive power for takedowns but also muscular endurance for when I need to methodically apply top pressure (oh, behave).

What's the play? What compounds? I'm currently on 125mg a week TRT that puts me just above supraphysiological. I'm only had experience with LGD-3303 and S-23 which I found to be very potent. Keep in mind I'm trying to stay just under 200lbs but failing that not over 225lbs for weight class manipulation.

Length: higher side of average

Girth: probably just average

Balls: lol, what are those?

Overall beautifully formed cock.

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u/VexImmortalis — 1 day ago

Can't enjoy sex because of size

What do I do? I'm firmly between 4"-5" and thin. Yes it's workable but it's not about it being close to average or whatever. I don't feel masculine. I don't feel sexually desirable. Even when I have sex it doesn't look right and I always worry that she's secretly wanting more. I feel like I've done everything else I can in life: I work hard, I earn good money, I went to a good school and work at a great company. People say I'm funny and not ugly and I know I can attract people, but these don't really solve how i feel.

It makes me jealous when I hear girls hook up with a lot of guys. It must be so nice being desired as you are without worrying about your body or the need to get to know them or build a connection. I hate it. I feel like I'm relegated to just relationships. I've always wanted to sexually explore and also be good enough for hookups but instead I feel robbed from certain experiences in life because of how I was born.

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u/Ok_Sorbet_7390 — 2 days ago

Stiff neck

Have any of you had a problem with your neck/ shoulder blade getting tight I keep getting a stiff neck to the point where I can’t turn it it always starts by a feeling I get behind my shoulder blade usually from lateral raises or lat pull downs or skull crushers I’ve talked to 2 different doctors and they usually just brush it off too I strained it or something but it happens multiple times a year just curious if any of you have had this problem I’ve even had it happen on warm up set of lateral raises with 10 pounds .

Length 4 girth 1

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Should my gf mold myself?

I've been thinking about this lately, sometimes she says I should be more careful and sensitive to her, then more aggresive in certain circunstances.

Ok, so basically I need to break my entire personality and rebuild the way she wants for this relationship works. I thought "just being myself" was enough to have a happy relationship, that's how mom and dad are still together after almost 40 years.

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u/gabigoalneles — 1 day ago

Anyone else started working out to mask better?

3 years ago I was a fat loser who didn’t know how to talk to girls. My parents kept asking about my non-existent dating life. It made me obsessed. I discovered lookism and started working out, trying to become attractive. Then I read books to learn how to converse. Shout-out to Mark Mason, “Models.” Now I’ve reached a level of attractiveness and am decent at conversation. I’m no male model, but I’m at least slightly above average. You can check my profile. It’s so weird seeing the mask I created become me. It’s almost like I lost my true self due to obsession.

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u/DatingConfusion12 — 1 day ago