u/Weak_Initial_4357

So I went in person to drop off my resume and cover letter and applied online since that's where they told me to apply, and now it says in progress. Anyone know about how long this will take? There's another kate spade but it's a little farther away that I'm thinking about applying to, but I don't want to risk being hired there then a couple days later offered a position at the closer location. Another positive about the far away one though is that they actually have an open position for a sales associate rather than just a temporary associate, like my closer location. So maybe I should just go in person to the farther away one then anyway?

I purchased an ecoviva mate 5 countertop reverse osmosis system a while ago and I'm not sure if the dang filters will ever be back in stock. So, is there any kind of like standard filters for reverse osmosis systems that can be used for this machine? Or do you guys have recommendations for machines that use filters that very likely won't go out of stock for long periods or where other filters can be used? Obviously I would like them to be great machines overall too lol. How's the Aquatru Carafe? An article I read said this was the best one. Any other recommendations? Thanks guys!!

To preface, I was in multiple accidents that ended in totaled vehicles and the situations were pretty terrifying, and since I already have anxiety, I avoided driving for a long time. Then, once I started driving again, I still tried to avoid it as much as possible and let myself totally freak out all the time.

1. Read your state's driving manual. I know this might seem excessive, but it helped me ensure I know exactly what is allowed and that I should be doing. Watch videos with driving tips, research things you are maybe unsure about, or take more driving classes if possible.

2. Tell yourself that you're being silly, and what else are you going to do? Avoid driving forever? Obviously, I know it can be really hard to drive again and it's not as easy as saying this, but telling yourself this and other positive affirmations can really help shift your mindset. Convincing yourself that this is just another normal part of life that most adults have to go through can help make it seem like a smaller part of your day rather than a huge event to freak out about.

3. Practice. Even if you just go for a small drive in the neighborhood. Drive with a friend or family member too, if possible. Start small and go longer, but don't feel the need to rush yourself. Avoiding it will just make your anxiety worse, even if it feels better for a while.

4. Study routes on google maps before you leave. Or whatever maps you like to use. It can help prepare you for when you'll need to change lanes and make turns, but I also recommend not doing this forever, since if you have a long drive it'll be pretty difficult to try to remember all the turns.

5. Have water and snacks ready, and make sure you're taking regular breaths. Or try other breathing and relaxation techniques the internet has to offer.

6. Minimize distractions as much as possible. Put your maps on and put the phone on do not disturb or on silent. Don't like your song and need to change it? Nope. Not unless you can do it with one of those buttons on the wheel. Don't touch your phone, and stay focused.

7. WAIT. Please, wait until you know you can go. If someone behind you is honking and super angry and flipping you off, just wait to make a turn or maneuver. Better to be safe than sorry. They'll survive.

8. Do things that make you uncomfortable, within reason. Push yourself outside of your comfort zone when it comes to driving. If you wait until you're 100% ready, you might be waiting forever.

9. Sit in your car, and picture where you can go. What would you love to go and do today? Go shopping? Go to the beach? Imagine what the driving might be like and recognize the amount of freedom you have with the car (assuming it's yours).

10. Get a newer car with lots of safety features, if possible. Things like pre-collision systems, lane departure assist, etc. It's absolutely not a replacement for you as the driver to pay attention, however.

11. Reward yourself after driving. Have an extra piece of candy or grab a coffee drink or whatever floats your boat. Something you'll be happy or excited for --- so its something you can look forward to.

12. Don't catastrophize. If you worry about every little thing that could happen when you're driving, you'll never be comfortable driving. Anything can go wrong for anyone at any moment no matter what they are doing, but I'm assuming you're not catastrophizing about your house randomly exploding either. Maybe you are. But know that a life where you're worried all the time is not a life worth living. It'll take time and effort to change your mindset, but it's worth it.

Good luck to everyone!

If there are any employees in this subreddit how do you like working there? I am very interested in working at a kate spade near me and am also wondering for any tips about getting hired? I plan on customizing my resume, writing a cover letter, and doing a bit of research about all their bag types, the history of kate spade, etc. I really think I would love to work there and any advice is appreciated!

I double checked and it says I received the email at 3:30 this morning that my first day was yesterday morning. I also got another email saying I can create my account 24 hours after receiving that email lol. Great start!

Has anyone taken this class and if so are the quizzes honorlocked? Open or closed notes? How did the class go for you?