Good day, everyone! As someone who’s not palalagaw especially outside Bacolod kag tambay lang gid sa balay. I am looking for beach recommendations in Sipalay hehe :)
Could you please share which beaches you would recommend and whether they are budget-friendly? Thank you in advance for your recommendations!
A few months ago, I met a guy in this sub. We never met in person, but he sent me a message, and from there, everything felt so easy.
Conversations never felt forced. We talked about random things, shared stories, laughed at the same jokes, and somehow, we just clicked. SUPERR HUHU
I liked his humor. I liked the way he typed. I liked how interesting he was. It was one of those rare connections that felt genuine, even if it only existed through a screen.
One day, he asked if we could meet. Believe me, I wanted to say yes. I really did. But at that time, life was overwhelming, and I had so much on my plate that I couldn’t make it happen. (Gusto ko gid promise :(()
We continued talking for days, and without realizing it, I became attached. I found myself looking forward to his messages and wondering what we’d talk about next.
Then one day, he was just… gone.
Hueeey, gusto ta gd ka iMeet ah huhu kasakit mani man joke
His replies stopped. I couldn’t access his account anymore. There was no goodbye, no explanation, just silence after that wala na haysss
Tapos deleted na gid imo account huhu
It has been a while, and I know we were only two strangers who happened to meet online. Maybe he has already forgotten that we ever talked. Maybe I was just another conversation to him.
But somehow, I still remember him
I hope life is treating you kindly. I hope you’re doing well wherever you are.
And if, by some small chance, you ever come across this post, please know that I miss you as a FRIEND.
I guess, it’s time to meet new people na hahhahahaa.
Hi guys. I really need to confess about this? And i need to vent this out hahahha
I’ve been single since birth and kahit anong gaslight ko sa self ko na darating si THE ONE, I cannot help but feel insecure about my physical appearance sometimes. :((
All my friends are in love, and there are moments when I feel like I’m being left behind in life. Though I know I’m still young and there’s so much more to life than falling in love, I can’t help but wonder sometimes. Never talaga ako naka-feel na may nag-pursue sa akin or nagka-crush sa akin. Never din ako nakaranas na there is someone constantly messaging me because they genuinely want to get to know me.
Maybe intimidating talaga ang face ko? Doninant hahaha basta….
I feel sad, especially when I see things on social media. Minsan napapasabi na lang ako ng, “WHEN KAYA?” at “SANA ALL!” 😅
But please don’t get me wrong I am genuinely happy for my friends. Seeing them loved and appreciated makes me happy too.
I guess there are just days when the loneliness hits a little harder. Days when I question if I’m pretty enough, interesting enough, or worthy enough to be chosen by someone. Days when I wonder if love will ever find me too.
But deep inside, I know that my worth is not measured by whether someone likes me, pursues me, or chooses me. I know I am more than my relationship status. I am still growing, learning, and becoming the person I am meant to be.
:))
A gentle reminder: if you’re looking for anything sexual or NSFW, I am probably not the right person for that. I genuinely enjoy getting to know people and building meaningful connections. Thank you for understanding and respecting my boundaries.
“Worth having is worth waiting for.” These were the words my mentor left me with before she got engaged, believing that true love really does exist.
I’m 23 yes, bata pa and I post this in this sub kay taga bcd ko and I know bacolodnons maka help gid sa akon maybe encouragements or may I know your thoughts? Naka feel ba kamo sini?
And there are times when I feel like I’m being left behind. It’s not that I want to conform to society’s expectations about being in a relationship, but as the eldest, I sometimes find myself wondering if I’ll ever get the chance to experience one.
For the longest time, I told myself that I didn’t believe in love. Even though my parents showed me what love looks like, I kept denying it to protect myself. I convinced myself that I was content on my own. Deep inside, I struggled with my self-worth and often felt unattractive, believing that no one would ever choose me.
People tell me that love will find me that the right man will come into my life like a thief in the night, unexpected and unplanned.
And while I hold on to that hope, there are days when it gets so lonely.
Still, I choose to believe that in the right place and at the right time, I will receive the kind of love I deserve. A love that is genuine, patient, and meant for me.
Lord, when kaya?
I don’t know what my future holds, but for now, I guess I’ll keep holding on. Trusting. Waiting. Hoping.
Because maybe some things are worth waiting for after all.
Kakapoy maging single pero maabot lang gd na gru? Haysssss
Edit: Edit: Please note that I only posted this to rant and vent. I am not entertaining any private messages, and I am content with being single. However, I am open to receiving advice. Thank you!
Sometimes It Gets So Lonely Trying to Be Patient :((
“Worth having is worth waiting for.” These were the words my mentor left me with before she got engaged, believing that true love really does exist.
I’m 22 yes, bata pa. NBSB. But there are times when I feel like I’m being left behind. It’s not that I want to conform to society’s expectations about being in a relationship, but as the eldest, I sometimes find myself wondering if I’ll ever get the chance to experience one.
For the longest time, I told myself that I didn’t believe in love. Even though my parents showed me what love looks like, I kept denying it to protect myself. I convinced myself that I was content on my own. Deep inside, I struggled with my self-worth and often felt unattractive, believing that no one would ever choose me.
People tell me that love will find me that the right man will come into my life like a thief in the night, unexpected and unplanned.
And while I hold on to that hope, there are days when it gets so lonely.
Still, I choose to believe that in the right place and at the right time, I will receive the kind of love I deserve. A love that is genuine, patient, and meant for me.
Lord, when kaya?
I don’t know what my future holds, but for now, I guess I’ll keep holding on. Trusting. Waiting. Hoping.
Because maybe some things are worth waiting for after all.
Ako lang ba? Naka feel ng ganito?
Maybe this is an unpopular opinion, and I feel a bit ungrateful saying it as a Bacolodnon, but everything is political. Mayor Greg’s free school supplies program feels political to me, especially with the apparent “SHARMAINE”shade. HAHAHAHHA
Still, I hope the supplies being given to students are of good quality since they’re funded by taxpayers’ money.
What do you think?
Hi, kamusta kamo?
I just want to rant here huhu
I have a friend we are super close and I treated her as my super bestie! But due to family concerns I move away from the city. But when I was in bcd always kami ga hang out and always ako nalang ga pay ka food namon because always lang sya may excuse and kakapoy kay permi nalang gd gapalibre.
In our friendship always ako lang ga give and give tapos indi sya mag spend time with me if indi ko sya pag librehon pero kay love ko sya dyapon biskan duwa kami may work na okay lang ko kay that what friends are for, right?
Tapos earlier I invited her na mapadagat kaso hambal ya if libre mo g ko :((
Nag offer nako ako ma pay for the accommodation and food tapos biskan fare nalang iya pero indi nalang daw sya, i wanna go out with her gid kay I miss her but it seems na ako lang gd ga effort sa amon na friendship:((
I mean, wala ko ga count ha pero do you feel the same as I feel or akon heart ang may problem?
Pero guyss upda niyo man ko b huhu i wanna go out na gd kay ka stressful na gid and I wanna meet other people and make new friends:))