Did i fuck up or am i overthinking?
There’s a girl on my campus that I find really beautiful, but I’ve never had the chance to talk to her. I always see her passing by when I’m in line at the cafeteria (kind of like a university dining hall). Last week, I was standing in line and saw her heading toward the end of the line. When we saw each other, I looked at her and noticed that she looked at me too, but I quickly looked away, and she did the same. I looked at her again, she looked back at me again, and once more I looked away and she did too. A third time, I looked at her and saw her looking at me, but I lowered my head.
I kept looking away and lowering my head because I was afraid she would think badly of me or see me as some creepy guy who stares at women.
I finished my lunch and, when I was leaving, I passed by her at the exit and once again our eyes met. I lowered my head and left.
Today, I arrived at the cafeteria a little late, and when I got there she was already leaving. I looked at her to see if she would notice that I was looking at her, but as soon as she saw me, she lowered her head.
Do you think I’ve completely lost my chances with her and did something wrong?
Do you think she deliberately looked down when i looked at her today, because she is basically saying thet she is not interested or she is just may e playing games?