
Do you have to hide just to study?
To be able to read, she had to hide.
In nineteenth-century Bengal, even a woman’s wish to learn to read could invite trouble. Yet one woman decided to learn the alphabet without a teacher, without books of her own, and with almost no time to herself.
Her name was Rassundari Devi.
Married young, her days were consumed by the kitchen, childcare, and endless household responsibilities. In many homes, women were discouraged-or forbidden-from studying. People feared that an educated woman would begin to question the social order.
But Rassundari’s desire to read refused to die.
As a child, she had listened to village schoolchildren reading aloud and caught a faint sense of the letters. Later, she watched her son practise writing.
One day, she found a copy of Chaitanya Bhagavat at home. She secretly kept a page from it and began comparing its letters with those in her son’s writing. Hidden away among cooking pots and household work, she matched letters, memorised them, and slowly taught herself to read.
Imagine: what we do today by simply opening a book, she had to do in fear of being caught.
Later in life, she also learned to write. The first part of her autobiography, Amar Jiban, was published in 1876. It is regarded as the first full-length autobiography written by an Indian woman-giving voice to a woman’s life in her own words.
Her story is not only about learning to read. It is about the mindset that keeps women away from knowledge.
Education is not merely a degree. It teaches us to examine our beliefs-to ask why we accept certain rules, roles, and expectations.
Even today, girls face expectations around marriage, family, clothing, and approval. Often, these are accepted without question.
Removing external barriers matters. But it is equally important to recognise the beliefs within us that quietly stop us from thinking freely.
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