u/West_Space_4712

estou com uma dúvida aqui…principalmente relacionada ao hyunjin do straykids (se alguem conhecer, por favor se manifeste!) mas gostaria de falar em geral aqui, os idols que olham muito para os fãs, tipo encaram mesmo, ou que repetem o olhar para o mesmo fã, principalmente os que repetem o olhar para o fã, vocês acham que isso é necessariamente atração ??? (sem levar em consideração o fanservice porque eu sei que tem muito disso, mas muitas vezes da pra perceber que o idol não esta forçando nada, ele esta olhando sem intenção de flerte ou fanservice, agora minha pergunta é se vocês acham que é mesmo atração)

btw eu tive que postas aqui porque as outras comunidades de famosos estavam me proibindo (???) e também acho que vocês sejam os mais sensatos, então vamos revelar isso😭

Vocês ja viram alguém que (literalmente) te deixou paralisado e te fez suspirar? mesmo sem nenhuma atração?

Vocês ja viram alguém que (literalmente) te deixou paralisado e te fez suspirar? mesmo sem nenhuma atração?

Vocês ja viram alguem tao bonito que te paralisou e fez você suspirar?

como e quando vocês descobriram que eram demirromanticos?

PLEASE HELP ME

HII 😭 I’m kinda in love with a guy and I really want him to be demiromantic and asexual (ik I can’t force that or anything, but I genuinely can’t handle the idea of him being attracted to other people 💀). So since I can’t just straight up ask about his sexuality, I wanted you guys to analyze something he said for me and see if there’s any chance he might at least be demiromantic.

So I asked him whether, to him, love has many reasons behind it or no reason at all. And ngl, he didn’t answer immediately, he actually sat there thinking for a few seconds before saying something like:

‘Is there even such a thing as loving someone for no reason?.. That’s just instinctive attraction.’

Then he paused again for a second and went:

‘Can love really be defined by instinctive attraction? Isn’t it more about loving someone for multiple reasons? Like, imagine someone asks “why do you love me?” and you answer “there’s no reason.” How can there be no reason?.. Even if you call it instinctive attraction, that attraction still comes from liking certain external or internal aspects of the person, doesn’t it?’

I know he’s not directly talking about his own experiences or mentioning emotional connection or anything, BUT pay attention to the way he talks about attraction 😭 idk if it’s because he kinda classifies attraction as love (even if it’s “without reason”), or because he questions whether love can even be reduced to attraction in the first place…

Cause i think an alloromantic person would probably be able to clearly tell the difference between “I’m attracted to this person” and “I’m in love with this person.” And maybe they wouldn’t have to think that hard before answering the question I asked 😭

(And yes, I remember literally everything he said word for word, including the pauses, because I’ve been replaying the whole conversation in my head trying to understand it 💀)