r/demiromantic

for example, i feel lithromantic towards one gender and demiromantic towards another 😭 does anyone else feel the same way or is it just me?

Hi all. Late bloomer here (30 F, NYC). Tried dating apps, found them to be unhelpful for me. How are people getting dates? What's the strat?

I'd like to figure out what I want from romance and partnership, but I haven't gotten the experiences to inform what I actually want long term.

Thanks! :)

Not to be mean but most of y'all are out here not finding people to date for years but my first and current bf is a demiro like me and we both got feelings for each other around the same time. (At least I think he's a demiro, his explanation of how he got feelings for me matches up with mine)

I headcanon Belle (Beauty and the Beast) as demiro.

Why?

Everybody else in the village is in love with Gaston, yet, while she admits he is handsome, she doesn't care for him at all.

She is repulsed with the Beast at first. Then, after getting to know him, and establishing a bond, she falls for him.

There's probably a lot I'm missing, but this is the most I can think of.

Question:

How am I supposed to date people when I don’t even like them unless I ACTUALLY know them?

Like I have this guy I think is cute but like I don’t like him. Except he already asked if it was too early to say “I love you” mind you I’ve know him for like 2 days

I’m also asexual but I’m fine with sexual jokes but I don’t think he thinks it’s a joke…

WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO????

I've met a very nice person around 3 months ago and somehow I pretty much immediately felt romantic attraction to them. Usually for me I have to be dating a person before I ever feel romantic attraction to them but somehow they just felt so perfect and I immediately had a crush on them. This never happened? Am I still demiromantic? How long does it usually take you to feel romantic attraction? Pls help

OBVIOUS TYPO IN TITLE WHOOPS So far in my life it's only made friendships awkward and romance difficult. I've been feeling kinda down about it and was wondering what positive there might be to demiromanticism.

I have always Identified as a lesbian sexually, but recently I met a guy that changed my perspective on my sexuality/romance... we've known each other for 6 months, and honestly, I'm head over heels, and have even started dating him. I'm so in love, and even am attracted to him physically. Is this Demi?