u/Western_Asparagus123

I have this old t shirt that i really, really love, but it’s now so full of holes and it’s basically disintegrating at this point. Fixing it is not an option as this point because the fabric is so thin and fragile.

I don’t want to get rid of it as it has sentimental value to me, but i don’t know what to do with it. It is a very thin white t shirt and it has a large design on the front. I don’t want to do anything with it that would destroy the image on the front (no t shirt yarn etc.) and I would prefer it if was still usable in some form and not just displayed on a wall or something as i am autistic and it was a sensory safe item.

If anyone has any ideas for things to do with it would be greatly appreciated :)

I have quite a pear shaped body and i’m very thicc in the thigh department and it gives me so much dysphoria.

i'm non-binary but i have dysphoria about many feminine features of my body. thick thighs do run in my family for all genders but i still feel like it makes my body look feminine and i hate it so much >:(

i have no intention of going on hrt (but even if i did I’m not sure it would do too but because although part of it is to do with fat distribution, it is largely muscle) so i really just need to learn to come to terms with it but i'm struggling so much.

it sometimes feels like the only body that the world perceives as androgynous is a slim, boxy, angular body and i will never have that.

basically i’m just asking if anyone has advice about accepting things that make you dysphoric but you have no intention of changing?