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28F 29M. This is my first long term relationship and I’m curious if this is normal to go through. My bf and I have had a really fun sex life our whole relationship. We are nearing the two year mark and just moved into a new apartment. All of a sudden I feel like our sex life has kinda changed. We’re doing it a little less and honestly, I haven’t felt as in the mood recently. Tonight in particular, all of a sudden I just couldn’t get to an orgasm when normally I do every single time. I don’t know if I’m now just in my head about it or what. I’m wondering if moving kinda just threw us out of routine and we need to get settled more or maybe my hormones are out of whack.. idk. I brought it up to him and he kinda gets annoyed saying nothing at all is wrong lol has anyone else experienced something similar? How did you handle it?

Without saying I’m some controlling b\*tvh does anyone else relate to this? I try to keep it in but I almost always end up having an attitude when he’s out with friends at night. He’s an amazing boyfriend and I know I should trust him but I can’t shake the feeling that there’s not much to do late night at a bar other than talk to women especially in the big city we’re in. He doesn’t go often at all but when he does I feel myself almost trying to find a reason to feel mad at him. Obviously I know I need to reel it in with this because I never want to push him away but just curious if anyone else experiences this?