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I need to add context first:

A few weeks ago my (M20) gf (F20) and I got into an argument. I’m not going to go into the specifics as their not relevant but essentially she stopped inviting me over to hers, slowly stopped seeing me as often and stopped texting me as often and when she did it was super dry.

I assumed she was just too busy as she was working full time Ontop of writing her dissertation, so I didn’t mention anything, assuming we’d spend more time together once she was free.

She messages me and says “I think we’ve drifted a bit”. I said “yea, I think so too”. This resulted in her getting angry.

Essentially she said that showed I wanted to break up and that I didn’t care anymore. After about an hour of back and forth “I don’t want to break up but we have spoken less” and “well if you think we’ve drifted you want to end it”, I got annoyed and spoke too harshly and got super annoyed with her.

I apologised the next day and calmly explained how I felt, she said she needed time to think and I said I understood. A week later she sends a breakup text & said we can talk 1 on 1, come Monday. The next day she sends a text saying we should get back together, I said I don’t think that’s a good idea but we can talk in person.

Monday comes around, I go see her and she says she shouldn’t have sent the breakup text.

She says we can get back together and see how things go over summer, and I was hesitant, but agreed saying we can try but I don’t really have the energy to work on this anymore.

This is the IMPORTANT PART:
At this point she explains that she spoke to her parents, and they told her they never liked me anyways, that she shouldn’t have started seeing me, that I live in a flat and she shouldn’t be seeing someone from a poor background.

She went home and told her parents we were back together, they said they didn’t want me coming over anymore. My gf told me this via text.

I told her that I won’t go over.

Now she’s telling me her parents are fine with me coming over but I am no longer comfortable with it, given the things they said about me, but my gf keeps trying to convince me to go over. She’s unwilling to come to mine, but wants me to be at hers.

She’s getting upset and annoyed that I don’t feel comfortable going over, saying things like “are we just not gonna have sex again” and “will you ever feel comfortable”.

AITA for not wanting to go to her parents house after her parents said they don’t like me, and that my gf shouldn’t have started dating me.

I need to add context first:

A few weeks ago my (M20) gf (F20) and I got into an argument. I’m not going to go into the specifics as their not relevant but essentially she stopped inviting me over to hers, slowly stopped seeing me as often and stopped texting me as often and when she did it was super dry.

I assumed she was just too busy as she was working full time Ontop of writing her dissertation, so I didn’t mention anything, assuming we’d spend more time together once she was free.

She messages me and says “I think we’ve drifted a bit”. I said “yea, I think so too”. This resulted in her getting angry.

Essentially she said that showed I wanted to break up and that I didn’t care anymore. After about an hour of back and forth “I don’t want to break up but we have spoken less” and “well if you think we’ve drifted you want to end it”, I got annoyed and spoke too harshly and got super annoyed with her.

I apologised the next day and calmly explained how I felt, she said she needed time to think and I said I understood. A week later she sends a breakup text & said we can talk 1 on 1, come Monday. The next day she sends a text saying we should get back together, I said I don’t think that’s a good idea but we can talk in person.

Monday comes around, I go see her and she says she shouldn’t have sent the breakup text.

She says we can get back together and see how things go over summer, and I was hesitant, but agreed saying we can try but I don’t really have the energy to work on this anymore.

This is the IMPORTANT PART:
At this point she explains that she spoke to her parents, and they told her they never liked me anyways, that she shouldn’t have started seeing me, that I live in a flat and she shouldn’t be seeing someone from a poor background.

She went home and told her parents we were back together, they said they didn’t want me coming over anymore. My gf told me this via text.

I told her that I won’t go over.

Now she’s telling me her parents are fine with me coming over but I am no longer comfortable with it, given the things they said about me, but my gf keeps trying to convince me to go over. She’s unwilling to come to mine, but wants me to be at hers.

She’s getting upset and annoyed that I don’t feel comfortable going over, saying things like “are we just not gonna have sex again” and “will you ever feel comfortable”.

AITA for not wanting to go to her parents house after her parents said they don’t like me, and that my gf shouldn’t have started dating me.

I’m not gonna go into full detail but I want a shelf that fits a very specific area on an existing shelf for my uni work.

I looked about and can’t find anything that fits exactly what I need.

I have a 3D printer, so I’m just gonna make the brackets I need but I need a panel to go between them.

Looking online what I’m getting is either clear Perspex which I don’t want, or I’m getting much larger cuts that I’d need to resize myself which I don’t current have the tools to do so, alternatively the nearest DIY store to me, is 6 towns away and due to circumstances I can’t take a whole day to travel out there and back.

What online retailer could I source a panel with those sizes from (I’m UK based if that helps)