I keep seeing posts here stressing about how they aren't RR enough; for that, I'll say, look to non RR people for guidance
I'm serious. You're a man who feels insecure over liking socially "masculine" interests? There are women who like cars, do MMA, lift weights and can still be in non RR, traditional relationships.
You're a woman who feels insecure over liking certain feminine things or not being strong enough or being disabled? There are short men, disabled men, fairly average men who dont strength train, can't fight to protect anyone, etc and still be in traditional relationships. And some men may still like feminine things like designing clothing, wearing makeup, etc.
There are still non RR traditional depictions in media where the most feminine housewife is still assertive and loud, while the masculine man is quiet and meek. Or that funny gag trope where the woman can open the pickle jar but still acts like she cant so her man can display his strength. And she is still enamored and attracted even if it was faked.
I'm just saying. Sure, RR is about this stuff too i.e reversing femininity/masculinity or reversing being dominant/submissive, or traditional gendered hobbies/interests, but it is also a spectrum. You can like cars, lift weights and still dress up in a cunty ass dress or be given princess treatment.
You can be a short woman, like decorating room in pink, and still wear a stylish hot pink suit and have a male version of Morticia Addams at your arms.
Idk, I'm just begging all of you to expand your imaginations when it comes to RR and breaking gender rules.