u/WinnerChic242

This is more about Fran and Jesse being negligent than about the kids but aren’t her kids almost 2? Why won’t she get them checked out?
I’d genuinely be concerned at this point. 😟Mainly because all they do is blabbe and…scream. I’ve never heard them use one consistent word. But I do still see bottles in their hands and diapers full of 💩

(Side note: what she made locket cleaned up today was spilled formula. Still going strong with the babas, I see). 🙄

Fran and her lies

She’s probably asking chat-GPT that’s reassuring her falsely and telling her her kids are geniuses and she doesn’t know what AI sycophancy is. 🙄 Who’s gonna tell her?

Anyone noticed that lately, she constantly starts talking about something and then the snaps just disappear and the conversation discontinues? There’s no cohesiveness to her snaps anymore because she’s constantly hiding stuff. There’s no continuity to what she’s saying, and the snaps are all over the place. I guess I’m wondering why sure thing is you don’t really want to share to begin with? I find it really obnoxious and it happens all the time. Don’t act open and unedited if you’re going to be so unedited.
She did it twice since yesterday too. She just doesn’t know how to do social media well

How is she a mother? She isnt the first twin mom. Why does she act so special? Im so confused on how, 2 years in, she STILL has not ONCE been completely alone with her twins for more than an hour or two. Nor has she ever taken them out by herself? Having twins is not that different than having, say, a one year-old and a newborn. I would argue that the age difference is even harder because the needs are so different. So, why is her circumstance so special?

Seriously, what’s wrong with her?

Is you genuinely that incapable or does she weaponized it?

Our extremely smart daughter is 26 months old, and over the past several weeks we’ve been struggling with persistent, intense defiant behavior that seems woven into almost everything we do.

She frequently looks directly at us after being told “no” and deliberately continues the behavior anyway. Whether it’s running back to get more bubbles after we’ve said they’re finished, trying to leave her room after being told to stay in bed, or intentionally dropping and throwing food, bowls, cups, and other objects when she’s frustrated, and a lot of
yelling and meltdowns. It feels less like isolated toddler behavior and more like a constant pattern of opposition.

Mealtimes have become especially difficult. We’ve shown her a lot of love in life (with boundaries) and we’re also a screen-free home. Therefore, we are unsure where all this without frustration and acting out is stemming from.

When she’s frustrated or wants to be done, she’ll throw food and dishes onto the floor, even immediately after being reminded not to. We’ve tried redirecting, ignoring, staying calm, removing items, buckling her back into her chair so throwing doesn’t become an escape from the table, and remaining consistent with boundaries. We’ve also implemented changes like locking her bedroom door for safety at night and putting her sleep sack on backward to prevent her from climbing out and roaming in the middle of the night, but overall we feel like nothing is breaking through. We have her signed up in extracurricular activities, we take her out to tire her out, but the only child syndrome is always needing attention and the behaviors that come with feeling challenged(she doesn’t like feeling challenged or she gets easily frustrated) persists.

This behavior has become exhausting. It feels like every interaction has turned into a battle, and despite our best efforts to stay calm and consistent, we’re reaching the end of our patience. We’re not looking for permission to be harsh. we’re looking for practical strategies that actually work because right now it feels like she ignores every limit we set. We’re worried about reinforcing the wrong behaviors, and we’re struggling to find the balance between being patient and being effective.

Most of all, we’re emotionally drained and don’t know how to keep responding calmly when it feels like we’re constantly being tested.

Is this normal? Like wtf is going on? I’ve never been the most patient person but I’ve really tried to be with her. Imperfect but I still try. My husband on the other hand is the most patient man alive and even he is being driven up the wall by her.

Any help is appreciated

For the record, we do not hit and we do not want any advice about physical violence.

Something with her face looks so off lately. She’s lost too much weight or something, so she has this really really long oval shape face and her already thin lips look way thinner with the tattoo. And the fake freckles makes her look like she’s got sun damage. Also, did anyone catch her come into jesse’s coffee snaps and her saying, “not the real me” because she didn’t have the devil filter on. It made me laugh because they still had a filter on, but she wants to act like that’s the “real her”. What’s wrong with them always pretending like they don’t have a filter on when they def do? And then Jesse went along with it too. 🤡 🤡

So insecure.

photos in comments

This am, Jesse is “joking” that their anniversary gift is to have another baby and for Fran to carry jesse’s embryo. 🤣🤣🤣 The jokes write themselves.
Soooo much baby talk and no baby in sight.

I also think it’s funny that jesse thinks Fran will EVER carry Jesse’s child that ain’t biologically hers. Jesse is so whack for being so gullible. I didn’t realize he was this dumb

Absurdity

That’s their idea of fun? And this is how they’re “celebrating” Arlo’s bday that’s still 2+ months away? I would HATE this as a teenager. Hanging out with my pussy-whooped dad and my self absorbed stepmother and my half toddler siblings who scream all day after a road trip to the next town over so to stay in a hotel room where my dads back hurts and my stepmom is just wasted and throwing up all night. Like wtf.
Also, why don’t they do anything other than go get coffee and go out to eat? There is so much world to live out there. They live such small lives, no?
Very boring and odd

She’s never done this and now encouraging you to go watch her spotlight 🤮
Gawd she is so obviously desperate

I was going through her comments and there are sooo many fake accounts commenting on her hair video on IG. And NONE of them even follow herrrr! Like this pic of an account below. Doesn’t follow her but is obsessed over her hair and mentioning Bailey Bieber? Sure Jan.

As if it’s not awkward enough that she pays to buy likes and comments but then to custom it to mention that she looks like hailey Bieber is beyond weird to me. I wonder if Jesse and them know what she does. It’s all so mental. HB needs to file something against her for harassment. Oh that’s right. She doesn’t even know Fran exists.

Who does this? What woman in her mid 30s does this shit?

I think her asking for a carrot and a bubble is a trap. It’s her way of conveniently trying to figure out who is potentially on this sub.
Also, she wants to get free engagement. So, please don’t enter 1. To not reveal your identity and 2. To not give her free comments and likes

Is anyone else completely exhausted by her vocabulary? Every outfit is suddenly “a moment,” “a yellow moment,” “a denim moment,” a whatever-the-hell “momenttttt”. At this point, the word has lost all meaning.

And don’t even get me started on calling every article of clothing “she” or “her.” The boots are “her.” The purse is “her.” The jacket is “giving.” It’s like she’s desperately trying to cosplay as Gen Z instead of just speaking like a normal adult, AS IF SHE ISNT IN HER MID 30S!!!!

The constant recycling of the same 2 phrases doesn’t make her sound relevant, it just highlights how limited her vocabulary actually is. The effort to seem cool and current is so obvious that it’s become painful to watch. She looks and sounds so dumb

Oh so the new computer she “bought” was also a brand deal that was probably gifted and all that snapping from this AM is just an ad? I wondered why all of a sudden she got a Microsoft surface and not an Apple even tho she’s always had an Apple computer. She is also extremely awkward and a bad actress, even for a snap ad. And yes, she looks odd as well.

But the real question is….

Why do we watch her at all, you guys? At this point, all we do is put money into her pocket. It isn’t for connection or for pleasure. She gives us nothing back. Doesn’t even snap anymore cause it doesn’t pay her.

She is a liar and a user and disrespectful toward her followers (us). I wish we could all collectively revolt and stop watching her.

I’m starting a YouTube channel about a topic I’m really passionate about, but each 30-minute video has five different segments and takes a ton of time to produce. I would not post more than once a week, maybe twice. Not because it’s too hard but because I don’t need to.

For those of you running more high-maintenance channels where videos take serious production time, how did you manage growth and consistency early on? Curious to hear what worked for you. Thanks!

You never know how they dress them so that’s why I’m asking. With that said, I always found it interesting that Fran is so ashamed of her curly hair (so is her mom and so is Katie) and they never leave it curly and are always straightening it, yet she can’t stop posting about poultry’s curly hair?? If you love it on her soooo much that you shove 1000000 photos of her down our throats everyday, then why not celebrate your own too? I’ve never seen her hair curly. I’ve seen it frizzy as all hell and greasy but not curly or in its natural state to ONE premier. Yeah? there is food for thought, Fran.

Anyway, I would assume this is poultry and if so, I’m wondering if they straightened her hair here. If so, super fucking weird but I wouldn’t put it past them honestly.

Sorry, I know I’ve posted twice already today, but I just have so many questions. This is the third time in two years. She’s posted that she’s going to the gym and yet, we’ve never seen a single picture or a video of her working out, so we all know is likely a lie. And where is this supposed gym? And are you also telling me that she worksout and then stays in the same outfit and doesn’t change or shower after?
Which is really fucking gross.

She’s def not working out hahaha