u/Winter_Company9029

Salam

I’m 26 male and have female co worker in her late 30s I work in health care .

I was talking about how my grandpa passed away because I was very quiet today and not talking to anyone .
She out of no where without me expecting comes in hugs me. I honestly was shocked and didn’t know what to say or do I didn’t hug her back. I kinda awkwardly pull away and said that’s ok .

I don’t know what to do am i sinful ?

How to tell her don’t touch me but in a way that doesn’t cause issues for me ??

I haven’t spoken to her since and now I’m scared to be around her .

My coworkers have never talked to a Muslim before and honestly don’t know how to navigate this

Salam I’m 27 male starting marriage search .

I just graduated in the health care field and I’m being conservative with my spending so I can build a financial base and also don’t want to take interest and also pay off my student loans .

All in all it’ll be some time until I buy a nice car .

I was talking to a potential and she asked what I drive right now and I said 2016 civic then she ghosted me . Is car that important ? I thought potential character and deen was ?

Is 2016 civic that bad ?

I’m 27 male have been passively looking in the past but feel like I really need to lock in and actively look .

I’m pretty introverted and small circle guy so I don’t know how to go about finding someone to marry ?

Any suggestions ?

Basically title

Other dudes can you drop your prespective

I’ve been getting likes but from people that are not my Type or don’t seem compatible in terms of religion

Matched with a few people but they either ghost when you get to deal breakers or just don’t put any effort in

Salam I’m a dude

Trying to get married and used the app but boy do I feel unattractive

I used to think I’m decent looking before the all but now I’m questioning if I’m blind lol

Alhamdulilah I’m 6 feet 3 and other people tell me I’m decent looking but I can’t seem to get matches with people in the west with whom I’m interested in

Maybe my profile could use some tips ?

So I talked to this girl in the beginning of the year and we both liked each other energy and interest was there . But we both decided it’s better to pause and re convene later when we both feel ready .

I reached out again after months of pause and she’s different.

She takes typically a whole day to respond sometimes two and it’s low energy .

When I specially asked her if she’s still open to marriage talks she didn’t reply for two days . I thought it was reasonable to assume she’s not interested and ghosted so I mentally moved on but then she replies Saying she’s open .

I brought up that she seems slow and low energy these days she says it’s because of her new routine where she has internships and then work . She says she feels low energy .

From my end I am very busy as well but at the very least I let her know that I may be a while replying .

Idk what to make of all this . She says she’s low energy and no time but it seems her IG followers are always increasing . So she is on social media .

If she’s not interested why not just tell me ??

Should I just move on ?

Salam

I want to know if I’m being unreasonable here

I reached out to this girl like 6 months ago and we really liked each other but the timing wasn’t right so we decided to let it go and if we are interested in the future we can reach out to see how things are

I do reach out and I notice her whole energy is diffent. Her replies are very slow and not as engaging like it used to be.

I first just text to break the ice and then ask her if she’s still interested in marriage talks and then she doesn’t reply.

I assume she’s not interested so I let go of it in my heart and then she replied two days later saying she’s open to it . I asked a really important question and she just disappeared, nothing to tell me she wants to think about things etc . So I assumed she just doesn’t want it . She said she needed time to process things

So we continue talking but she’s always replying like a day or two later and not as much engagement .

She said she is going through some changes working a new internship and then working on the weekends

But tbh I did the exact same think 6 months ago and I was engaged with her or at least let her know if I’m going to take a while to reply .

Is she just not interested ? Or keeping me as an option ?

Salam basically title

I’ve always dreamed of working out with my wife and having a little diet plan and meal prep together

But most women I talked to don’t really workout and at the most just walk . Is that normal ?

Was getting to know someone for marriage . Wasn’t the right timing so paused .

Reached out again and was breaking the ice they were replying all though slower and then I ask about having marriage talks again and they don’t reply for days .

I assumed they are not interested and move on . They respond later saying they are interested . Is that bad communication

Salam I’m a desi living in the west

Born and raised here but considering all options

Is it a good or bad idea marrying a women from
Back home ?

What are the pros and cons ?

Salam I’m talking to someone for marriage

She is very open and honest and told me she has guy friends and she knows it’s wrong and she is working on stopping it.

She said she wasn’t very practicing before and is trying to change. She says it’s a habit of hers and it’ll take time .

My question is why ?

There are a lot of non Muslim girls who still don’t have male friends . So why do some women do that ? And if she changes is it possible she might fall back into it ?

I really like this girl . But I can never accept male friends

Salam im 27 male

I live in the west and want to marry somebody from here

My parents disagree and want me to marry back home and also want me to stay with them once I’m married
both of which I don’t agree with.

It’s been many years of me politely and gently trying to change their mind but honestly I don’t think they will change and my age is getting up there . I wanted to get married like yesterday.

In the past I have declined marriage proposals because I know my parents wouldn’t be on board and it would cause a lot of friction so I decided to work on convincing my parents first.

But now I just want to start looking on my own and tbh I don’t want to involve my parents because that won’t go well. As a man do I need to have them involved if they are unreasonable ? Technically I can do everything on my own since I don’t need a wali but I know it’s highly recommend to have parents.

How do I even proceed what do I even tell a potential wife ?