
This is my altar. Is there a wrong way to build an altar, or to practice? I think a spell I did today backfired but I am not sure why.
Hello
First, please do not be too harsh. I am still rather new to witchcraft and honestly have been too shy/hesitant to post on forums like this.A big reason is because the one time I posted on a social media site asking for help/advice, I had a really negative experience that's made me avoid spaces like this.
I have been practicing for a few years now, since 2022. I wouldn't call myself traditional. I've tried a few different forms of magic as I tend to go from one thing to the other quickly. Candles, stones, deity work etc. I mainly give my devotion to Hecate, Morrighan, and Persephone- though I do worship others gods and goddesses. I do have Celtic ancestry if this matters at all.
I think I am what you'd probably call an 'eclectic' witch?
Unfortunately I have a very small house and my space for practice is limited. For ease of use, I have my altar on a wooden tray that I inherited from my great grandmother, passed down by my grandmother and given to me by my mother.
I completed a ritual of luck and prosperity this morning for my fiance to give him luck for an important presentation he had this morning. He is in his 2nd to last semesters for his master's degree and this presentation was an introduction to his thesis for his final year. He just texted me that he completely fumbled. When he got there he crumbled over his words, he had his presentation ready in his head but he couldn't get it out and that he missed so many parts. He wasn't nervous this morning and has a lot of experience presenting in front of crowds just fine. So this is unusual. I suspect that what I did may have backfired?
Now I know magic doesn't work exactly how you ask it to. I know theres a lot of complexities that go into it. I honestly wonder if maybe how I practice or more specifically if my set up may have affected the spell or altered the effect/reversed it?
I set up my altar with symbols of the gods I work with. I leave many offerings, trinkets, herbs, items I find, potions I make and candles. I use it when I burn herbs, smudge and when I make 'potions'. There are things like a rabbits foot, many different kinds of stones and gems, tarot cards, ritual bowl etc. the tray is for ease of use and keeping it all in one place as well as a way to honor the wonderful, powerful women who carried me into this life.
In case it may be the spell- it is one that I made utilizing herbs + candle/fire. I lit a green candle (light green apple in photo). I used mint, cloves, lavender, and cinnamon. I ground them together and used a bay leaf to write my intention and his name on it. I then burned it, prayed, bottled the herbs and sealed it with 3 colors. 1 his favorite color, and 2 shades of green for luck. I sealed the waxed cork with a pentacle on top. I ended my spell with so mote it be as I usually do.
Again I don't consider myself traditional/am still new and in many ways have been on my own journey. I have read some books but honestly not front to back. I do struggle with my ADHD and it does make it difficult to read them all the way through..some of my other knowledge has been through witches I trust on social media. And before you mention this, I have learned to be wary of info on social media for practicing because I am aware that it's not always legitimate or even correct information/advice.
I would appreciate some advice or thoughts/expertise from more experienced practitioners.
Sorry for typos I'm on my phone.
Please be gentle 🥺