u/Wolfandsheep244

Heya!

It's me 0w0 a little fella.

About 5 years ago I sat down when I realized I probably have some sort of mental disorder and planned to figure out what the hell is going on with me. This lead me to realized I was bigender as a result more recently in the past half year or so.

My research has taken me kind of all over, but the reality is that everything I experience affects who I am as a person. I've notice some connections with some things that seem to change how some people experience being bigender, so I was hoping to pick some peoples brains about it and hopefully help some people who are confused. It seems due to how many variants of being bigendered can be, it makes it hard for some people to learn or know what they are and how to manage it, so I figured if I was doing research, getting first hand accounts would benefit greatly. As well, doing it publicly means others get that benefit.

To be 100% clear, I'm not a therapist/spycologist/doctor of any sort so these are based on experiences from myself and what I've read here as well as research I've done through several areas online. I can't promise my research information is accurate or true as some things seem to contradict one another but I thought this would be an interesting social experiment of sorts. No harm in trying if it helps someone.

I'm looking to speak to folks who are strictly two genders and complete seperate. Those are the only conditions. It will involve personal questions as a warning.

I plan to write up a Google document or something on what I find and may as other groups from the community to reach out later to make it all manageable. Then we can have something for all of us to give context to some of the things we experience and help others when those things come up.

Thank you everyone!!!

If you do reach out, just comment below letting me know and I'll talk with each person one by one. That way my inbox doesn't explode. I'd appreciate that very much.

EDIT: Apologies, I seem to have made a bit of a miscommunication. I'm looking for people that have two gender identities that functions completely separate. This meaning that they don't overlap in your mind and the person can only be one or the other internally at a time. Sorry for the confusion.

Hey! Just started a run as the little fella with the Xyloschemer. Just dominated him and killed my own body. Anything I should know about the little guy? I know he has this weird token. I chose to have the merchant token as well due to that starting character getting a lot of items to start off with. I just wana hear if anyone else has tried being a Xylodrifter

Hey :3

It's me! A little fella.

I like playing the brain blast build and I tend to lean into Ego, but I wanted everyones take on the best route with or without physical mutations in the start.

I just feel like you get rolled way to easy as you get into the game more. I've tried raising my max hp as well but it just doesn't matter sometimes.

So I was in the bath and had an epiphany that does me no good but made me smile. It shouldn't have but I couldn't not share it.

I got a job as security at a hospital and was told I'd get one role but then found out the hospital is being relocated and the role I'm logged as is apart of that new area. So.... i got placed in the mental heath ward!!! The last place anyone wanted to hang out got 12 hours a day 4 days a week.

They also have the shifts made up 2 days and 2 nights and then 4 days off before repeating which is killing me slowly. My poor brain can't tell what day of the week it is anymore.

But while in the bath I was reminiscing about how they were forming (forcing into hospital custody care) someone homicidal...

And the place is already full of people who generally don't wana be there, but let's just spread a little person who wants to kill others into the mix. Why not.

My brain in the bath want to that meme of the factory and the cats going to the *blank* factory. And I realized I'm the cat going "well i hope it's not crazy at work today" *works at the crazy factory*

And I just couldn't not laugh a little to myself.

Hey everyone!

I got a job as a security officer at a hospital. I'm more new to the area so everyone is new. I'm kinda going threw some stuff since my last shift. It's only my third day.

Anyways, it all men working in this job, and they tend to banter in the security office since there's no cameras in there. Some of them are not that mature unfortunately but it is what it is. Their ages range kind of all over from 19 to 30 and probably some being a little older.

My last shift two of them were joking about just every red flag you could think of. Homophobic, transphobic, racist, anti furry. The list.

I stopped them at one point and called them out on it just sort of listing off all the things they managed to be in that list in the span of one conversation. They said they arn't actually any of those things and it was all jokes. I was told, "we treat this office like Vagus. What happens in the office never happened." Which I get. They would be fired on the spot if they said it anywhere else in the hospital.

I semi believe they didn't mean any of it but part of my don't think they are being fully honest. I think it's sort of a, I don't think I'm those things even when I am type of deal. They seem like nice people generally and I think they would accept me for what I am, a bisexual furry trans person, but I really don't want to make my own life hell...

😅 one of them made a joke about my wife being a him, as sort of a guy joke jab at me at the end of my shift when they found out i was married. Thing is I have 2 partners and one is male. I just... didn't know what to say. Just sort of froze not expecting it to come up so quickly.

Just wish people were a little more attentive. I'm new and could be a bunch of those things. I would never do that to someone new to a job. Even if they don't mean it, I still feel uncomfortable at some of the comments like one if them using the word "tranny" as if it isn't a slur for trans people.

Just got sent my work contract to work security at a hospital 0w0 vary exciting.

Not really sure how transitioning is going to look in a work environment like that, but I honestly need the money and it pays well.

They want me to do a bunch of training and I just had to sign like a million papers, but I think this is a good change for me. They pretty much described my job as airport security. I just hang out by the doors and check peoples bags and stuff. Seems pretty chill since it's a hospital.

Not looking forward to being around sick people all the time or hospital smell all the time. I don't think anyone wants to be at a hospital :P so people tend to be a little on edge.