Getting called crazy again and again for liking younger men
I just needed to share this , it doesn't really upset me since it's a funny way to disagree with someone in my society but i keep wondering how it is low-key sad that you need to be persistent about your preferences and people still make it feel like it's just a phase and how it's so unusual for a girl to prefer younger men
They make me seem traumatised or that i must have experienced something bad in the past while in reality I'm just uncomfortable to be in a romantic relationship with older men i just don't see myself in that kind of dynamic but they shrug it off and tell me that "you're just saying that , the one thing you don't like is most is likely what what you're gonna get in the end"
It's just frustrating how people keep twisting your preferences and it's worse when it's as simple as this let alone if it's something more unusual for them like for instance i do know that i lean more to the dominant side i just don't like labeling it and would like to spoil the man i love but when it comes to these things i keep sending subtle hints about my type to not appear weird but i think this is the only way to find the man of my dreams one day since i know a lot of men feel shame liking older women in here too.
Ps.the age range I'm talking about is [around my age,my age-3] so nothing crazy