Online dating(M26, F22)
Hey, I met a girl in the city I’m currently in. She’s here for work for a few days. At first she didn’t believe I was real because I don’t have Instagram, but eventually I picked her up with my car. I could feel a bit of hesitation from her at first, which is understandable. Everything felt pretty organic — we ended up kissing and even a little more. After that we kept talking online since she’ll still be here until Wednesday.
I expressed myself honestly and told her I like her. I kept being warm and affectionate because I genuinely think she’s sweet and interesting. At one point, after I gave her a compliment / was being affectionate, she replied: “We’ve only seen each other once.”
So my question for girls is: didn’t she realize it was flirting? Is she maybe afraid of attachment? Or did I accidentally give off a different vibe?
Long story short, we flirt a lot because I like her. Usually I just let things happen naturally — I’m more of an “enjoy the moment” type of person.
Any advice?