u/Working-Chemical-502

Hi fellow big chested folks. I'm going to Europe in a few days and am a bit perplexed about my wardrobe. Since I was in elementary my chest has unfortunately been quite disproportionate to my body. However I have always refused to cover up, because regardless they're going to be there and I get attention no matter what. I also hate wearing something baggy just for the sake of modesty. And I've made peace for the most part about people being annoying.

I like to wear alot of cute classic style dresses that show off my curves, simillar to how Marilyn Monroe or Sophia Loren or Dita Von Teese would dress, however I'm concerned that as a female solo traveler it's going to be difficult or unsafe. I just wanted to hear some personal experiences or advice. Its super hot there right now and I would really really hate to wear something frumpy on the trip of my dreams just cause men and sometimes women can't act normal. I'm going to Italy, France, and England if that helps give some context.

Hi everyone,

I'm a 20F from the US planning my first solo trip to Europe this summer. I'll be spending most of my time in France and staying in female hostel dorms.

My itinerary is roughly Paris to La Rochelle to Bordeaux to Nice, and while I'm based around Nice I also want to spend time exploring Antibes and Cannes.

I've never solo traveled before. I've lived on my own, but only in a small town. I've also spent time in bigger US cities and I'm unfortunately pretty used to things like catcalling, random comments, and unwanted attention from men.

The difference is that in the US it doesn't really bother me much because I'm on familiar ground. I know the language, understand the culture, know how to get around, and I'm never that far from home or people I know. Being in a foreign country by myself feels a little different.

I tend to get a fair amount of unwanted attention, and I do have a curvier figure. Most of my summer wardrobe is pretty normal feminine stuff (sundresses, skirts, etc.) and I'd rather not feel like I need to completely change how I dress. My mom however is of the camp that I need to go modestly, but its also hard for me to be modest with the size of my chest.

For women who have traveled or lived in the French Riviera area, what was your experience like in places such as Nice, Antibes, and Cannes? Did you generally feel safe walking around alone during the day and evening? How common is catcalling or harassment compared to the US?

I know France isn't some wildly dangerous destination, but since this is my first solo trip I'd appreciate hearing honest experiences and any practical advice. I dont know if pepper spray is legal there but I've gotten sunscreen sprayed in my eyes before and I swear its gotta be a close substitute I can use.

Thanks!

(Any advice about London, Paris, Bordeaux, or Florence and Rome would also be appreciated)