u/Worldly_Beautiful_62

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How to tell someone I'm not ready to meet up?

Basically this. I haven't been on a first date in many, many years, was in a long term relationship for my early twenties. I'm naturally a really shy person and the guy I'm talking to asked to go to dinner after two days, which I'm just not ready for. I'm wondering how to tell him that politely, hopefully without scaring him away lol. We've barely even talked, just know we share interests.

And, once that's done, on another note—am I just wasting everyone's time? I keep seeing people say that most girls agree to a date after one week and that it's pointless if I'm not willing to do that. Is that true? I literally downloaded the app last Thursday and hearing that is making me wonder if I should already just give up and delete it because I'm fundamentally not ready to be going on instant dates left and right. Am I just screwed? Lol.

Edit: Please keep in mind the first half, I'd like to figure out what I should say to him.

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Has anyone mixed Cubaris Glaciers and Cubaris Anemone Splash?

I'm curious as to what would happen. I have a chance to get some for free but don't really want an entire new colony right now so I was wondering what the offspring would look like if I mixed them. Would they just all end up looking like regular anemones?

If anyone else has let the two cohabitate, let me know what happened! I'd especially love if anyone has photos to show. I'm curious but at the same time I don't wanna permanently lose my Glacier line.

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u/Worldly_Beautiful_62 — 2 months ago

is bigmood.com a scam?

it's the source of several items I've seen shared on social media but I'm unsure if it's paid promotion. I've always assumed it was and never engaged but I saw an item that I would very much like to purchase for a friend. I've tried looking it up and even tacking a "reddit" onto the end of the search but it seems no one else has asked. So, does anyone know—scam or legit?

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u/Worldly_Beautiful_62 — 2 months ago