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My parents disagree on my pronounciation

My name is a traditional-ish Irish name, with a traditional Irish pronunciation. However, in the United States (at least) there is a second "less correct" but still completely acceptable pronunciation.

Worldwide, depending on what the local language, there are some places where one pronunciation is "easier."

I have found in talking with other people with my name that while they are generally forgiving of someone choosing the "wrong" pronunciation, there is a way they think of themselves that is their correct way, and will correct people to how they want it pronounced.

My parents didn't realize until I was 6 months old that they disagreed on how to pronounce my name. My dad loved the "less traditional" pronunciation, and my mom lives the more traditional Irish pronunciation. They agreed to disagree.

I truly don't have a preference. I introduce myself both ways. I reference myself both ways. People in the know ask me how I pronounce my name, acquaintances are embarrassed they introduce me the wrong way, and it's so awkward to be like... No I am the rare one who truly doesn't care. Both are fine. Friends act worried they might have offended me pronouncing it different than my preference.

Edit: was trying to not dox myself but whatever. It's Maureen. traditionally: MOR-een. Less traditionally: MUH-reen

Does anyone else have the same sort of issue?

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u/YarnSp1nner — 11 days ago

Enamel? On hold? This isn't the family wheelhouse!

This bracelet was owned by my grandmother, and my mother believes it was purchased in Mexico or East Coast USA. But could be also in Italy.

I could not find any marks.

Does this look like real enamel/gold?

The hinge broke when we opened the latch to investigate.

It is quite heavy. We don't have any other enamel jewelry to compare this with and don't know what enamel should weigh.

My grandmother owned almost no costume jewelry, and my aunts believe for how often she wore it, it was likely a gift from her husband, who despised costume jewelry. ( He was a lapidary and regularly gifted her real stones.)

Because she wore it regularly for 30+ years and they don't remember him being a jerk about it (sadly was a jerk of a guy, but diamonds are a girl's best friend and she got lots) , they feel sure it is legitimate, despite having no marks.

Sadly my grandfather passed suddenly many years ago, and no one ever asked her before her decline into dementia.

Is there a way to have it authenticated without damaging it further? We have so many stones in the family, but none of us have any experience with enamel and don't know what to do (let alone get it fixed). Does this look like costume jewelry and not worth the bother, especially now it is broken?

We are not looking for an appraisal or authentication but rather any general help with enamel stuff.

u/YarnSp1nner — 3 months ago

There is a six way intersection in between my house and my child's sport activity location.

This morning for the first time ever there was a car waiting at each street.

We executed a perfect circle of people going in order. It was so smooth.

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u/YarnSp1nner — 5 months ago