Definition of love
I saw this on internet and found things that are smth only you knows . Ik how the people in this subreddit are constantly fighting those battles even when no one sees , fighting their heads , fighting why that thought happened to me and fighting themselves everyday .
Love is what you see it is , its neither butterflies , neither calm , neither begging them to say or understand you , neither going on dates . Love is an action you chose them in your daily life instead of having countless possibility , communicating , having mutual trust and connections and smth your partner being good enough is all it needs . Your brain will find many possibilities and outcomes which you can't even imagine , but chosing love with your values . How you wanted to be in a relationship , how it perceives you , how you neglected those things and moments because you thought they might harm you or the relationship . Love is different for everyone , for one is joy , for other its staying , for many its enlightment after long battles , for someone constantly fighting the nervous systems in the happy and secure relationship.
you guys are strong .