u/Youthinksono

I know a Taurus likes to process things slowly, but what about the ones who are also not completely healed and keep things bottled up? We’ve been together over a year, but sometimes it feels like we’re still in a surface phase. We have really great moments at times, where I feel super close to him. Then I can pick up when his mood falls below his normal for an extended period of time. I’ll ask if everything is okay, and all I get is “I’m good.” 😐 Super frustrating for me. I could see if we’d only been together a little while to get this response, but still at a year? Is there anything that I could say to encourage more of a response without making him shut down more? What helps when/if you get in these places? I want to show him that I’m a safe place in some way. I also value direct honesty so with him holding back it feels heavy. (Btw: I’m an Aqua Sun, Pisces moon, Aries rising. He’s Taurus sun, cancer moon, Leo rising.)

This is the 5th or 6th time I’ve had to treat all 3 of my children since December. So I do alllll the things each time. Treat them. Treat the whole house. All bedding. All stuffies. The car seats. The car. All clothing is washed. Pillows. Treat the kids again a week later. Treat myself too. Their dad does the same to his house. All. Of. The. Things… I’ve spent so much money and time off work doing this. After the third time, i raised a stink about it. The school enforced a garbage bag rule. Kids had to put their belongings in individual bags for the day. (This did not last longer than a week or two) But I feel like they should have sent a notice to the classroom when a case was confirmed to go ahead and treat each child. If we had all treated them at the same time, we wouldn’t have this back and forth. What do other schools do when there’s a huge outbreak? I checked the reported cases and there are tons! I’m about to lose my mind. I told the school today that I’m beyond disappointed with the way this has been handled. I asked them to notify all of her friends parents. I will also reach out to them individually. I just think they don’t do enough for containment/prevention. I’m also going to call the pediatrician. Could it be super lice? Is there a stronger shampoo than the OTC? 😭 I’m contemplating bombing my house. (Kids are 8, 6, & 3)

My Taurus bf does SO much to make me feel nurtured that I feel inadequate at times. He cooks for me, plants the garden, knows my cycle better than I do(🤯), tells me to relax, takes care of me always! What can I do to equal the playing field? I want him to feel cared for and cherished. I wish I could cook, but that’s not me 😬 I’m a jazzing up a box at most. What else makes y’all feel cared for? Even little things. Tell me what your partner has done to make you feel seen. He’s such a sweetie. How can I be? Signed an Aqua Sun, Pisces moon, Aries rising. (Also cap and Scorpio stelliums) 🤍🩵🧡