Anyone else sick of her?

Anyone else sick of her?

She comes on my FYP all the time and I have no idea why. She errrrks me with her bad attitude and personality. I get her hustle on TikTok Shop trying to make her bag with the ugly clothes and shoes she’s pitching, but be so serious. Her entire gig is that they hired bad contractors and they ruined her barndominium. There’s clear issues in the build but I don’t understand where the pause in build was when they first noticed these issues. That’s one thing, but another is the fact they’ve got this massive house that’s move in ready and they don’t live in it because it’s so poorly built. They’ve temp lived in it for a month now while their trailer gets dropped off. Anyone come across her page. Her newest post is her throwing away perfectly good dishes because she doesn’t want to clean them. Not going to lie, I’ve done that before, but unsure if it’d post it to brag. No shame in the hustle game, get your bag girl, I just don’t know why she has to bring such attitude when people ask curious questions or make comments.

u/Zealousideal_Gear334 — 7 hours ago

25 pounds in 2 Months

Hi all! I know this might hit the right audience and it might not, I just ask everyone’s respectful. I started my journey 2 months ago SW 268, I’m F. Today is my two month mark and I’m down 25 total pounds. I’ve stayed in the mid 240s for a few weeks now and it’s becoming discouraging. I really thought by now I could say without a doubt I’d lost a full 30! I felt like I was melting during my first month. I’m just itching to hit the 30s. Does this sound par for the course? Am I losing faster than most or slower? Just hoping for some advice or maybe some encouragement from fellow shot takers!

reddit.com
u/Zealousideal_Gear334 — 4 days ago

Leon Update

Leon posted this and if you can’t read it, “Imagine hating me for having boundaries but I’m literally just spinning in my backyard”.

After Leon’s last post I don’t believe anyone hates them? That’s kinda harsh. I think everyone’s just put off slightly by the “don’t say hi” comment. Also, nobody is faulting someone for putting up boundaries. I feel they’ve lost the argument and point people are making. It’s appropriate to set boundaries and share thoughts, but if you choose to be a public presence online going about delivering those is key. Leon has made pride and love a large point to their socials and clearly who they are as an individual so telling the general public to not say hi to them if they pass in the hallway was simply unfriendly. If they want to be a ghost in public the wording could have been different. Even then, for someone who wants to be a voice and boast about pride and respecting others, wouldn’t you want to be there for a simple hello in a coffee shop?

u/Zealousideal_Gear334 — 7 days ago

Jet Lag Symptom Radar

Hi friends. I was in Europe traveling between June 18th-24th. My symptom radar has picked up major, then minor and now major signs. I’ve been home for two days now. Up until today I didn’t feel bad but this morning I’m on the decline. Has anyone had this happen while experiencing jet lag, traveling, or am I getting sick? The last two days it’s given me the whole no alarming vitals but still showing signs.

u/Zealousideal_Gear334 — 10 days ago

Relatable Influencers

I’m not posting this to shade Dani, though I don’t like her. I’m just curious where the relatable influencers are. She just happened to be the first one to pop on my feed today so she’s my victim 🤣 I’m not struggling and my husband and I do well for ourselves but I’m tired of these influencers with homes that look like showrooms, overconsumption on a regular basis, and making life sound like a never ending vacation. I want to follow the woman not missing a beat, hustling, and living in a home she decorated in 2020 and hasn’t changed anything since. Any suggestions? Also, if I had this type of money I’d go with turf alll the way.

u/Zealousideal_Gear334 — 18 days ago

Caption This

I have no idea who this is but she came on my FYP and I’m permanently scarred. Samantha Bauchmann did this several months back I believe and got backlash for the overconsumption. Samantha’s looked ridiculous but a lot better than this. This looks literally awful.

But for fun, give me your best “caption this”. I’ll go first: Me when my mom passed and left me with her Longaberger collection.

Edit: what’s more sad is there’s folks who downvoted this. Check on your loved ones, you never know when they’ll take a turn for the worst and like something this awful.

u/Zealousideal_Gear334 — 19 days ago

Katherine Schiro

First things first I can’t stand when she comes on my FYP. I’m unsure how or why she even does and I’m sure she’d make a smart ass comment about getting her bills paid from people like us. Secondly, she has been posting these trends about being fat but showing that she doesn’t actually eat unhealthy or bad so the haters can stop. In her recent one she literally has a Starbucks pink drink, feta wrap(delicious btw), about 3 rolls of sushi, some Mexican appetizer, and a bowl of pasta. She then complains about people questioning her calorie intake and how that’s not why she’s fat. Coming from someone who use to eat like that and think I was healthy, to having now lost 40 pounds by going clean and cutting that amount in half, she doesn’t realize that’s actually a lot. My point is if she wanted to maintain her weight then sure, but she complains about not being able to lose. Thoughts?

Edit: as this post has blown up a bit I think it’s important to add we can all have a different opinion on health and weight while still being realistic. This was a high calorie day, period. The issue is this creator expresses how she’s very body positive while complaining in the fitting room the store got it wrong with making a size XL too small for her. She is not a size XL. And that’s okay, or not, but either way it doesn’t matter. If you’re going to preach health and wellness be real about it.

u/Zealousideal_Gear334 — 23 days ago

Demi Does It

I can’t stand the “my old order vs my new order” content she puts out. “And keeping that thing offfff” Ugh shut it. As a plus size person on a weight loss journey myself I can’t imagine having EVER eaten the old order she claims she would get. We are talking a double bacon cheeseburger with ranch, large fries, and a cookies and cream milkshake with a Coke Zero. Girl. Nobody is eating that for lunch every day and I don’t believe you were either. It’s like she goes to the fast food restaurant and asks what’s the worst caloric combo you can create and I’ll pretend that’s my old order.

u/Zealousideal_Gear334 — 1 month ago

Hi all. I had the story a couple days ago about finding a text on my wife’s phone from a coworker saying “whoever loses trivia makes the other c*m” he was addressing that in regards to them eventually going to trivia night together. I’ve since addressed it, she told me she broke all but professional contact with him. Last night they had a big retirement party for a coworker. No big deal. It got to be 9pm and I said hi. I mentioned I was ordering food and asked if she wanted any for when she got home. Then 10:30 came around and I told her I was going to lay down and she said she’d “be home soon”. I fell asleep, woke up at 12:30 and asked if she was coming home, she said “yeah”. Fell back asleep and woke up at 5:30am to no wife home. Of course I instantly panicked. Called her and she answered, let me know she was on a coworkers couch(whom I have never met and don’t know their wife). She said she would head home. She gets home, gets in bed and says nothing to me. I ask if she’s going to say anything and she says she thought I was asleep… mind you the back door had been left unlocked all night because I thought she was just 30 minutes up the road. She starts going off! “You’re not my mom!”, “it’s not like I was out f** anyone!” Etc! I started crying and expressing how upset I was. She should have communicated with me she was going to be crashing at a coworkers. My wife is 36. Clearly having struggles with alcohol and after what we went through earlier this week I thought she’d respect me and be home at a reasonable time. She never apologized to me. Also what 36 year old married person passes out on a coworkers couch that your wife doesn’t know?

Note: the person whose couch she passed out on isn’t the coworker who sent her the inappropriate text.

Another note: I had told her Wednesday after I saw the text that she had until 9pm to get home from the retirement party or I was locking our glass door(which doesn’t have a key). She told me that’s why she crashed at this coworkers couch. I asked why she didn’t just come home at 9, or the fact I was texting her up until 12:30 checking in to see if she was coming home was a clear indication I knew she’d be coming home.

What should I do?

reddit.com
u/Zealousideal_Gear334 — 2 months ago

My wife has a coworker who she became friends with when they started working together. The coworker is male(I’m a female). From the start he showed signs he was attracted to my wife but we’ve both always laughed at it. They have grown closer over the last year. A lot of happy hours. My biggest concern a week ago was her increase in these happy hours and drinking. Clearly not a good influence of a friend. Last night at trivia she left her phone on the text thread between them while she got us another round. I glanced at it and grew concerned when he asked if she could go to happy hour tomorrow and she said it would be bad to go when they went Tuesday night and will be going Friday night. That was a red flag so I scrolled up a bit, he said “whoever loses trivia makes the other c*m”, in response to them eventually going to a trivia night together. I’m assuming she told him she was at trivia night. I don’t know anyone in my life whom I’d be okay texting me a joke about c*mming other than my wife. Should I be concerned? I don’t know if I’m worried they are physically hooking up, but I don’t want her talking to him again unless professionally. Advice? I confronted her about it and she said he says things like that often when he’s drunk because he has a thing for her. To me it sounds like he has feelings and isn’t respecting our marriage.

UPDATE:

After spending all day in ghost mode I let her know I was feeling heartbroken. She asked why. I let her know someone disrespected our marriage and I do not feel that person is a good friend.

Her response:

I told you it isn't a normal or regular thing but you are right I have been too passive in shutting it down. Ignoring it clearly hasn't gotten the message through but I have put my foot down and made it clear it was going to stop. I can tell he is very ashamed and he apologized. I'm sorry you are hurting.

What do we think?

reddit.com
u/Zealousideal_Gear334 — 2 months ago